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                <title><![CDATA[David and Me - @wheel]]></title>
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                <description><![CDATA[  My brother Joel died 3 months before the birth of his only grandchild. Today is David's 1st birthday. He's a whopper, 30 lbs. 4 teeth, crawling and pulling up but not walking yet. Learning new words every day. Blows kisses to say goodbye. <br><br> This is me and my grand nephew, David.  <br>
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                <pubDate>Fri, 05 Sep 2025 17:57:47 -0400</pubDate>
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                <title><![CDATA[Pretty Men And Pretty Women In Myth and Legend - @wheel]]></title>
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                <description><![CDATA[  Pretty men and women in myth and legend.  <br>
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 Recently saw an article here about AI. I use AI to help me clarify and define story ideas. Usually I start with some random thing I think of and see where it goes. This is a discussion I had with Meta. <br><br> This starts with a discussion of the idea of the "Man that all women love" trope. It's a standard in certain types of anime but the idea is much older. The first time I encountered it was in the book The Well At The World's End.  Ralph, the hero, is a young, spoiled, rather callow and self centered youth. He's also a man that all women love. I started with a discussion of Ralph. But it proceeded to a discussion Endymion, Narcissus, Echo, and Medusa. It touches on elements of consent, of deprivation of agency and patriarchy, then and now. <br><br> Trying to get a discussion started. Tell me what you think.  ]]></description>
                <pubDate>Thu, 04 Sep 2025 12:29:43 -0400</pubDate>
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                <title><![CDATA[About Me - @wheel]]></title>
                <link>http://thenewstalkers.com/wheel/blog/2970/about-me</link>
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                <description><![CDATA[Let's see, I do not, and have never, owned a cell phone or tablet. I feel that they are a huge invasion of privacy. Not just the endless sales/scam calls, although those too. But I watch too much court tv and the main evidence in trial after trial is from the cellphone. I mean,yeah, you can leave your phone at home while you crime. But the average person gets videoed like 20 some times a day. On my street my next door on the right neighbor has Ring front and back, on the left has cameras all around, across the street another camera. And it's that way all over. I can see it now, "Here is video of you buying gas and snacks at a CircleMart 100 miles from your phone's location. That seems suspicious." If you never carry one it's not suspicious that you don't leave electronic lint everywhere. I feel like they cost WAY too much. I've heard bad things about updates that drain batteries and batteries that can't be replaced. Sounds like a scam to me. I feel like people spend way too much time looking at them. Before I retired my employer provided, (forced upon me), a phone. Only phone I've ever had and only carried while working. Believe me, I see ya'll not seeing me because you're looking at your hand. Occasionally when I'm out and about, with my head up, my eyes moving, watching the world unfold around me, I'll see someone else looking up and around. Sometimes we wave. <br>
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I am bugged by slightly obsolete technology in tv shows and movies. For example, the detective is riding in the taxi and tells him, "Pull over at the next phone." He hops out,drops in a dime and makes a call. Cool. It was the times, it was the tech then. Now, I'm watching some show I used to really like 30 years ago in re runs on Hulu. The up to the minute main character, dressed up, hair done, just so jewelry and every accessory on point. She gets a phone call and pulls out...a Blackberry!!!  What the hell? Why not just send smoke signals?!  That seems very silly considering my aversion to even owning a cell phone but there it is. The concept of the separate keyboard didn't stand the test of time. And not really all that much time. <br>
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I've always been interested in figures of speech. Lately I've been noticing people using litotes more. Litotes is not a plural, it's a Greek root. Litotes are a way of faintly expressing a feeling. For example, you went to a movie with your significant other who was 'less than pleased' with the movie. (hated it). That's an example of a litotes. The counter from you, who liked the movie, "I didn't hate it." (Loved it) Another litotes. Here's the thing, people use this figure of speech, some of us a lot. But hardly anyone knows they're doing that. Somehow that both comforts and annoys me at the same time. It comforts me to know that ya'll are doing it without meaning to. It annoys me that you don't understand.  Not entirely unrelated side note: damning with faint praise is a subset of litotes. <br>
<br>As some of you who've known me for a long time know I like/hate/feel compelled sometimes to write. It's not something I'm proud of but I can't seem to stop. Even though getting paid has involved me in a couple of class action lawsuits, I persevere. Full reveal, in total I've made less than 1200 dollars for a LOT of work. Obviously not doing it for the money. Don't t know why I do it at all, just do.  No danger of quitting my day job. My current WIP is a manga/anime plot. I've got most, nearly all, of my main line plot worked out but I've got some side quests to figure out yet. Anyway, just something else I'll spend hours on and not get paid. At least I have a lot of fun researching. Another figure of speech, metonymy figures prominently in the plot. <br>
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What is metonymy you say? I'm so glad you asked. It's a figure of speech in which an object or place stands in for a person. For example, "The Crown issued a statement today." Yeah, crowns can't talk, but the word crown is being used in place of the king, the queen, a spokesman, whatever. Saying "the House of Mouse" instead of Disney corp is a form of metonymy. Let's just say that it can be used in ways that are ambiguous and misleading, especially if I have anything to say about it! ]]></description>
                <pubDate>Wed, 03 Sep 2025 19:19:51 -0400</pubDate>
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                <title><![CDATA[Dirty Words - @wheel]]></title>
                <link>http://thenewstalkers.com/wheel/blog/2837/dirty-words</link>
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                <description><![CDATA[ It's been a long time. I see you lot are as hopelessly mired as ever. None of you have moved, none have budged. Still not having any fun. Thank goodness for A. Mac. Let's see some songs with bad words. I'll start as always.<br>
 Thomas Benjamin, a man with 2 first names and a lot to say, most if it dirty.<br>
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 Well This Is Shit<br>
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 In case there was any doubt he will say what he thinks.<br>
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 I've No More Fucks To Give<br>
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  He's not the only one who doesn't give a fuck. Chip Taylor and The New Ukrainians don't either.<br>
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 Fuck All The Perfect People<br>
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 So. Here's a chance for you terminally constipated thoroughly benighted and fully fucked up folks to say what you really mean..with music.<br>
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                <pubDate>Fri, 14 Jun 2024 10:16:08 -0400</pubDate>
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                <title><![CDATA[The Media Is The Message - @wheel]]></title>
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 Media is a funny word, funny concept too. The type of media does influence the message. Not going to get into newspapers, magazines, pamphlets, etc.  This isn't about that kind of media.  I thought we might try something different.  We've done videos with smoking, animation, men's names, cover songs, and cheating songs. (I'm working up a new slant on the cheating songs thing, maybe I'll have it ready for the next time.)  Let's share videos with media in them. Any type of media, phonographs, radios, tape decks, walkmans, etc.  Hell, let's go ahead and throw in print media.  Just like with the smoking thing, anything goes.  We're here to have fun, not nitpick.<br>
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 Let's start with an old favorite of mine. It's hard to believe that Paramore has been making music for almost 20 years.  I've been a fan since they started.<br>
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    Yes. Pictures are media too. Album covers, they're media too.<br>
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                <pubDate>Wed, 23 Feb 2022 09:08:36 -0500</pubDate>
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                <title><![CDATA[Smokin'! - @wheel]]></title>
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 A couple weeks ago I watched an old movie, The War Between Men and Women. The male lead, played by Jack Lemmon, was loosely based on the artist, James Thurber. It was a good movie, bit dated, but one thing really struck me about it.  All the smoking!!  People were smoking everywhere, trains, cars, in public, in buildings, while others were eating, as they were eating,  around children.  I was born in '52 and grew up in this time period.  It was the norm for me, as a kid.  But it's been years since that kind of thing was outlawed and it just gave me a start at how ubiquitous it was back then.<br>
 Point is, I thought it might make an interesting thing to see if we played, Music videos with smoking in them. Any kind of smoking, tobacco, pot, hash, smoking tires and smoking engines and smoking guns. You all know me, I don't believe in limiting our entertainment with the hobble of consistency.<br>
 Let's start with a classic, french girls smoking in bed. Peter Sarstedt, Where Do You Go To My Lovely:<br>
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 Black Stone Cherry, Me And Mary Jane<br>
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 This one is sneaky, I happened to spot one person in the background with a ciggie and cup of coffee at about 1:42 seconds. Ram Jam, Black Betty<br>
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 You get the idea, let's have fun.  I've been looking around here and you folks definitely need a little fun!<br>

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                <pubDate>Tue, 14 Sep 2021 08:43:05 -0400</pubDate>
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                <title><![CDATA[Crack Whore. Crack Whore? Crack Whore! - @wheel]]></title>
                <link>http://thenewstalkers.com/wheel/blog/284/crack-whore-crack-whore-crack-whore</link>
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                <description><![CDATA[Crack Whore. Crack Whore. Crack Whore.My granddaughter is almost 3. She's learning to talk at a really amazing rate. She is learning new words, repeating phrases, even entire sentences that she hears us say, and saying things that we never taught her. I've been fussing at her grandmother and her mom, both of them potty mouths, about their language around the kid. They ARE getting better, but....Laural and I were playing the other day and Dan-Dan, her dog, ran behind her and tripped her. She blurted out, "I'm gonna beat your ass." Something her grandmother says, but Never does, a dozen times a day. I cracked up! It was hilarious. She probably thinks it's all one word, "I'mgoingtobeatyourass.""If you don't clean up this room-pick up your toys-eat your dinner-take a nap- I'm going to beat your ass." Grandma says, but never does. Still, Laural hears this and she doesn't miss ANYTHING. I joke all the time that it's a shame a 3 year old is smarter than 3 grown ups, but she is.The other day, Laural, her grandmother and I were at the grocery store. G-ma saw a woman that she really hates going into the grocery store. She said, "Why is that crack whore here?"The baby IMMEDIATELY focused on a new phrase, "Crack whore. Crack whore? Crack whore!"First, I laughed my butt off. Alicia was mortified. The baby was curious. But it did teach g-ma a lesson. She's really working on cleaning up her language now.]]></description>
                <pubDate>Tue, 16 Dec 2014 08:52:00 -0500</pubDate>
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                <title><![CDATA[Lethologica - @wheel]]></title>
                <link>http://thenewstalkers.com/wheel/blog/101/lethologica</link>
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                <description><![CDATA[The word "lethologica" describes the state of not being able to remember the word you want.I call it 'Someti-heimers', like Alzheimer's with a mulligan. It really pisses me off when it happens too. For me it's usually names, I've never been good with names. I can remember things about the person, places we'd been, things we'd talked about, but not the name! At least not when I'm trying to remember it. I've become very good at dissembling when I can't remember the name, "Hey dude! It's been a while.", "What have you been up to?". Always a good one since people like to talk about themselves. Of course, I do remember the name, usually later that evening or the next day. By then it's too late naturally.The odd thing, to me, is that I do remember many details about the person, just not that one crucial detail, the name. I can remember, as a child, being amused and feeling superior when mom would forget which one us she was yelling at. She'd start with me and just kind of count the five of us down till she go to the one she wanted. But, to her credit she could remember the names, she just couldn't remember what she was yelling about!I think it's some kind of unconscious selective amnesia. I'm pretty good at remembering certain names,women's names for one. I practically never forget a name there, probably because I'm paying attention with both eyes. It's true, I don't pay attention to other men. I'm usually reading something with one eye or planning something or distracted in some way, only paying attention with one eye, so to speak.Maybe the solution to my problem is simply to only hang out with women!I think I'm onto something! It would make it much easier for me to remember people's names and I would get more opportunities to flirt. A win-win for me. Now all I need is an all female construction site and my problems would be over.]]></description>
                <pubDate>Sun, 17 Feb 2013 13:20:34 -0500</pubDate>
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