Teen boy in Colorado accused of killing ex-girlfriend after she tried to break up with him
By: NBC News
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July 4, 2023, 6:03 PM UTCBy Julianne McShane
A 16-year-old boy in Colorado whom authorities accuse of fatally shooting a teenage girl who had tried to break up with him weeks earlier has been charged with murder.
On June 16, Jovanni Sirio-Cardona broke into Lily Silva-Lopez's trailer home through a bedroom window and shot her several times, the Weld County District Attorney's Office alleged in a statement on Facebook. Authorities later learned that the pair had dated for about six months and that Lily had tried to end their relationship about four weeks before the shooting, according to the DA's office.
NBC News does not normally name minors accused of crimes, but Sirio-Cardona has been charged as an adult, the DA's office said.In addition to being charged with first- and second-degree murder, he is charged with first-degree burglary, aggravated robbery and possession of a handgun by a juvenile, it said.
It was not immediately clear Tuesday whether he has an attorney who can speak on his behalf or whether he has entered a plea.
Police said in an arrest affidavit obtained by NBC affiliate KUSA of Denver, Lily told her 13-year-old brother to run when she saw Sirio-Cardona entering through her bedroom window. Sirio-Cardona found Lily in the hallway outside her room, shot her several times and then demanded her brother hand over his phone, the affidavit claims.
Lily's brother later went to a neighbor and said that his sister had been shot and that Sirio-Cardona ran away afterward, KUSA reported, and the neighbor called 911.
When police arrived at Sirio-Cardona's home, he told his grandmother that "he did what he had to do and he shot someone," the affidavit alleges, according to KUSA.
Lily was pronounced dead at the scene, the DA's office said. Her obituary says she was 15 years old and had just finished her sophomore year at Northridge High School.
"She enjoyed shopping, clothes, makeup and dancing," the obituary says, adding that she also "loved to eat" and "loved animals."
"She was a loving and caring friend with lots of spice," the obituary adds.
Lily's parents could not immediately be reached for comment Tuesday.
Sirio-Cardona is due in Weld County court on Aug. 3 for a status conference, the DA's office said. He is being held on $2 million bond, it said. It was not immediately clear where he is being held.
Representatives for the court, the DA's office and the Greeley Police Department could not immediately be reached for comment.
KUSA reported that the affidavit says Lily's brother told police that Sirio-Cardona had been caught on camera walking by their home earlier in the week and that her mother told police that Sirio-Cardona put a gun in Lily's mouth and demanded she tell him she loved him when she tried to break up with him about a month before the shooting.
And less than a week before the killing, police responded to Lily's home after a report alleged that Sirio-Cardona had punched her in the face and hurt her arm, according to the affidavit, KUSA reported.
According to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, teen dating violencecan include physical or sexual violence, stalking and psychological abuse. About 1 in 12 high school students experience physical or sexual dating violence, with female students experiencing higher rates than boys and LGBTQ young people experiencing higher rates than heterosexual students, the CDC says.
Intimate partner violence affects nearly half of people in the U.S., with about 1 in 2 women reporting having experienced sexual or physical violence or stalking by an intimate partner at some point in their lives, according to the CDC's most recent report on intimate partner and sexual violence. About 44% of men report the same, according to the CDC.
Data from U.S. crime reports suggests about 1 in 5 homicide victims are killed by intimate partners and that more than half of female homicide victims are killed by current or former male intimate partners, according to the CDC.
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Why was this kid walking around free?
How do people get so obsessed...I will never understand it.
I would almost want to say throw him in a mental institution yet then I would be afraid they would let him out.
Have been in love once or twice. Finding her in bed with my best friend ........................
I don't see anywhere that he was out on bond so that raises the question, ''WTH is going on''.
Yup. It doesn't seem he was ever arrested. Surely, somebody who has been accused of sticking an actual gun in another person's mouth and threatening her should have been brought in for questioning, at the very least. This sounds like a pattern of behavior that was ignored until it was too late.
Sadly, it sounds exactly like that.
I think the young boy was lucky. Though he is going to be scarred the rest of his life.
So will the shooter, once he realizes the gravity of what he's done. If he ever does.
state red flag laws are not enforced by the teabag sheriff in that county.
I was going to ask...What the hell is happening in Colorado...
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I don't see how people can call complete obsession love.
Imo if you truly loved someone, there is no way you would even want to harm them. You would want them to be happy and successful.
Strange infatuation is not love.
Some people seem to think love equals possession.
I can only think, if I ever got to the point that I had hateful thoughts for the person, the relationship is pretty much over.
People I truly love I cannot see being anything but supportive.
Being dumped can hurt but hell, a fact of life for most people.
Plus, they were 16 and 15. The likelihood that this was a forever relationship was just low. This kid seemed to have unrealistic expectations all over the place.