Couples Who Choose Not To Have Children Are 'Selfish,' Pope Says
Couples Who Choose Not To Have Children Are 'Selfish,' Pope Says
Pope Francis said that couples who opt not to have children are being "selfish" as he spoke of a "greedy generation" that's choosing not to procreate. The pontiff's remarks come just weeks after he seemed to send a contradictory message, telling Catholics that they don't need to breed "like rabbits."
Speaking at his general audience in St. Peter's Square on Wednesday, Francis talked on the joy of children and their importance in society, at one point reminiscing about his own mother.
"A society with a greedy generation, that doesn't want to surround itself with children, that considers them above all worrisome, a weight, a risk, is a depressed society," the pope said. "The choice to not have children is selfish. Life rejuvenates and acquires energy when it multiplies: It is enriched, not impoverished."
On a visit last month to the Philippines, one of Asia's fastest-growing and most impoverished nations, Francis defended the church's ban on artificial contraception.
And Religion News Service says that Francis on Wednesday:
"[Once] again praised the 1968 encyclical of Pope Paul VI, Humanae Vitae , that reiterated the ban against artificial contraception while enjoining Catholics to practice 'responsible parenthood' by spacing out births as necessary.
"Francis added, however, that having more children 'cannot automatically become an irresponsible choice.' "
"It is not the first time the Pope has come out with contradictory statements; two years ago when making reference to LGBT worshippers, he told journalists: "If a person seeks God and has goodwill, then who am I to judge?"
"During last year's Vatican synod on the family , the Pope believed he was on track to getting many Church leaders to admit that homosexuals had ' gifts and qualities to offer' to the Christian community.
"But the Vatican backtracked on the Pope's suggestion, calling it an ' unacceptable' deviation from church teachings .' "
http://www.npr.org/blogs/thetwo-way/2015/02/12/385735269/couples-who-chose-not-to-have-children-are-selfish-pope-says
I don't think that people who choose not to have children are selfish at all.
The Pope's position is , I expect , based on the number of Muslims in the world compared to the number of everyone else ... especially Catholics since that is his prime audience .
For the longest time my oldest daughter and her hubby decided they didn't want children, I never said a word, because it's their life ,and their decision, so I respected that. In the meantime, their friends kept pushing for them to have kids, they stood their ground. My daughter had to go off the pill because she had been on them for many years. Well....shortly after...she got pregnant!
(unplanned)
At first I was very concerned as to how they were going t deal with it...but , they are both very happyabout having a baby. (in April) !!
So, all in all, I feel it's no one's business to tell a couple that they should or shouldn't have children...it's their life!!
So ... you want to discuss the Pope but don't want to discuss religion ? Hmmm ...
I guess my point is...It's NOBODY'S business to tell people they should or should not have children...not the Pope , not the church , and notany denomination....nobody!
So your OK with Iranians pullulating like rabbits ?
Knowing that you would suck as a parent is to save a child an unhappy childhood. Not everyone is parenting material and knowing that is far kinder.