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We’re All Capable of Going ‘Goblin Mode’

  

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Via:  hallux  •  2 years ago  •  124 comments

By:   Caleb Madison

We’re All Capable of Going ‘Goblin Mode’
The Oxford Word of the Year tells a concise story about how many of us are doing these days.

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The people have spoken about what the people have spoken: The 2022   Oxford Word of the Year , chosen for the first time ever by public vote, went to   goblin mode   by a 93 percent majority. Oxford defines   goblin mode   as “a type of behavior which is unapologetically self-indulgent, lazy, slovenly, or greedy, typically in a way that rejects social norms or expectations.” It’s a gloriously evocative phrase—and it tells a concise story about how many of us are doing these days.

The first record of   goblin mode   occurred in 2009, when someone   tweeted : “m was in full hyperactive goblin mode last night. it was as if she ate a bag of sugar-coated candy, then washed it down with a few red bulls.” Not much is known about m or the specifics of her behavior on that fateful night, but the description is vivid: Her primal side had been unleashed. Although the post received a lukewarm 22 likes,   going goblin mode   described a condition that, more than a decade later, has become all too familiar.

People have gone other modes before: We started to go   beast   mode, for example, in 2007, with   savage   mode and   sicko   mode following later. The metaphor originates in video games, where navigating a hidden challenge might activate another “mode”: a special style of gameplay where you might move 10 times faster or appear as a zombie. To “go X mode” is to summon the spirit of X for a stretch—going Caleb mode, for example, might mean overanalyzing internet slang.

Goblin mode   returned with a vengeance in February 2022, in a   tweet   expressing mock disbelief at a Photoshopped headline: “Julia Fox opened up about her ‘difficult’ relationship with Kanye West,” it read. “‘He didn’t like when I went goblin mode.’” Fox, the actor/model who had just ended a high-profile fling with the artist now known as Ye, never actually used the phrase—but something about it resonated with the discourse of the moment. Fox’s eccentric style might seem goblinesque compared with the pristine InstaBeauty of the Kardashian empire from which Ye had been so recently banished.   Goblin mode   represented a full aesthetic rebound from immaculate self-presentation—perfect for a time when people were returning chaotically to public life from the madding bowels of pandemic isolation. “The term then rose in popularity over the months following,” Oxford University Press said, “as Covid lockdown restrictions eased in many countries and people ventured out of their homes more regularly.”

Western mythology is littered with all sorts of goblins: shape-shifting animals; demonic, fairylike creatures; rude and hairy humanoids. What typically separates them from other supernatural forces is not their physical appearance but their passion for shelter. Goblins tend to lurk in cozy spaces. Most early accounts place goblins in caves; eventually, during the ascent of urban European life in the 15th and 16th centuries, stories described them as dwelling in houses.

Goblins represent the impish un-self-consciousness of our private lives. They’re ugly little monsters who love making mischief around the home. They have more fun than trolls because, instead of waiting under a bridge to hurt someone, they’re just chilling at the crib, looking nasty and getting up to no good. Maybe they haven’t showered in a few days, but they’re not evil. They just want to stay in and play. Sound like anyone you know?

In the early days of the pandemic, many of us unlocked a new mode in the video game of life: demonically uninhibited domesticity. Through countless quarantines, we all became “m”: pent-up balls of energy bouncing off the same four walls, maniacally scrounging up fun in confinement. Unable to party elsewhere, we transformed our home by necessity into a stage for chaos and revelry. I myself would not be writing complete sentences today had my housemates and I not developed a weekly ritual of getting blisteringly wine-drunk and screaming obscenities at the movie   Cats .

The ability to go goblin mode was a necessary evolution, forged in trauma. But it now remains with us as a superpower. As we emerge from our caves after that long hibernation, our goblin-selves lurk somewhere deep inside us, beckoning us back home to vibe out. I don’t see going goblin mode as “self-indulgent, lazy, slovenly, or greedy” at all. It’s refreshingly authentic and deeply cathartic. In goblin mode, we can become our true wild selves, unkempt and offstage, triumphantly invisible to the public eye.

I might define   goblin mode   as “unbridled domestic liberation” or “a complete shedding of the mask of public life” or, my personal favorite, “staying home and getting weird.” Whatever you call it, I’m grateful for my newfound ability to go goblin mode. Now get out of my house so I can act unhinged.


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Hallux
Professor Principal
1  seeder  Hallux    2 years ago

Move over LGBTQQIP2SAA, I'm a GM-er and my pronoun is mode-me-we.

 
 
 
Buzz of the Orient
Professor Expert
2  Buzz of the Orient    2 years ago

What a sad commentary it is on present humanity for such an expression as "goblin mode" to have been chosen as "word of the year".   

 
 
 
mocowgirl
Professor Silent
3  mocowgirl    2 years ago
 “a type of behavior which is unapologetically self-indulgent, lazy, slovenly, or greedy, typically in a way that rejects social norms or expectations.”

Isn't this how the self-righteous, religious zealot, forced birthers view women who just want to have sex for fun instead of procreation?

 
 
 
mocowgirl
Professor Silent
4  mocowgirl    2 years ago
In goblin mode, we can become our true wild selves, unkempt and offstage, triumphantly invisible to the public eye.

Is this an example of goblin mode?

Thousands of St Nick fans flock to NYC for SantaCon as NYPD braces itself drunken crowdgoers | Daily Mail Online

Tens of thousands of St. Nick fans in festive fancy dress have invaded the streets of New York to celebrate SantaCon 2022 - as NYPD braces itself for debauched and drunken behavior at the notorious annual event.

Hordes of revelers dressed as Mr. and Mrs. Claus,   Christmas   trees, reindeers, elves and even the Grinch flooded  Times Square at 10am on Saturday to kick off the festivities. 

The crowd is there to take part in an epic pub crawl that includes sixty-five bars, club and venues from Midtown to the East Village - with proceeds from the $15 tickets given to charity.  

 
 
 
SteevieGee
Professor Silent
5  SteevieGee    2 years ago

It's interesting that the 'word of the year', winning with 93% of the vote, is something that I've never used or even ever heard used.  I guess I'm just too indifferent and selfish to pay enough attention to what people say.  Meh.

 
 
 
mocowgirl
Professor Silent
6  mocowgirl    2 years ago
Oxford Word of the Year 2022  

The public has spoken! After opening the choice of Word of the Year up to English speakers for the first time in its history, over the last two weeks more than 300,000 people cast their vote.

The Oxford Word of the Year is a word or expression reflecting the ethos, mood, or preoccupations of the past twelve months, one that has potential as a term of lasting cultural significance. Supported by evidence of real language usage, Oxford’s editors track candidates as they emerge throughout the year, analyzing frequency statistics and other language data in the Oxford English Corpus. Previous words have included  vax  (2021),  climate emergency  (2019), and s elfie  (2013).

While I found this seed interesting (and amusing), I am more in agreement that "gaslighting" is (sadly) more deserving of the "Word of the Year" award.

‘Gaslighting’ Is the Word of the Year. What Does That Tell Us About the World We’re Living In? | Vogue

‘Gaslighting’ Is the Word of the Year. What Does That Tell Us About the World We’re Living In?

Anyone who has ever been gaslit will remember the feeling. Wondering whether you might be overreacting after all. The self-doubt over what—until just now—you absolutely knew to be true. Perhaps you are a crazy psycho bitch and have misread the situation? Maybe you do overthink. Is it all in your head?

It seems as though more of us want the answers to these questions than ever. Merriam-Webster has just made “gaslighting” its word of the year , after searches rose by 1,740 percent in the last 12 months, and it was looked up multiple times, every single day. The dictionary broadly defines gaslighting as “the act or practice of grossly misleading someone, especially for one’s own advantage.”

Unlike previous years, there wasn’t a single world event that prompted the spike in searches and led to it becoming “word of the year.” But we shouldn’t be surprised. That’s the thing about gaslighting. It’s not a single seismic headline-grabbing moment. It’s death by a thousand tiny cuts, the likes of which are being inflicted on women quietly, insidiously, and behind closed doors constantly. (While it can happen to anyone, research has shown that gaslighting is mostly used as a form of emotional abuse in heterosexual relationships by men towards women.)

And it’s not confined to romantic relationships. The manipulation of your mental state to allow someone else’s bad behavior to continue can occur among friends and family. It can come from the mouths of politicians or doctors who want you to believe your pain is “all in your head” (people of color and women are most often on the receiving end of this “medical gaslighting”). 

But a note of caution. Because the term gaslighting is, as the actress Rebecca Humphries has put it, at risk of being “watered down.” Humphries is the author of the genre-changing book Why Did You Stay? about the impact of being gaslit by her ex, a certain comedian who was caught cheating on her with his Strictly Come Dancing partner and recently visited the Australian jungle . (She never names him, so neither will I.) 

And she’s right. Too often we substitute “liar” for “gaslighter.” We use it as an easy insult or joke when our partner claims we didn’t tell them to take the garbage out. At the risk of sounding humorless, it’s not all that funny when you consider the abuse it’s meant to describe. 

We’re not talking about straightforward fibbing here; it’s far more devious and manipulative than that. And by misusing gaslighting as a term, we undermine the very word that’s designed to describe a pattern of undermining behavior.

“Gaslighting isn’t lying, it’s more sinister,” Humphries tells me. “You become so dependent on the gaslighter that you start to gaslight yourself before believing the truth about a situation. ‘I’m sure they said that they would come tonight… but then again, my brain is mad so I’m probably wrong.’ It truly feels as though you’re going insane, and the irony, of course, is that you are the one who holds the truth.”
 
 
 
Trout Giggles
Professor Principal
7  Trout Giggles    2 years ago

I didn't know I was living in "goblin mode".

I'm slovenly and lazy but not greedy. That takes too much effort

 
 
 
cobaltblue
Junior Quiet
7.1  cobaltblue  replied to  Trout Giggles @7    2 years ago

I'm slovenly and lazy but not greedy. That takes too much effort

It's hard to be slovenly and greedy. If you acquire stuff, it just adds to the clutter. 

 
 
 
Kavika
Professor Principal
8  Kavika     2 years ago

Their new mascot, the Goblin Shark, they are not a myth they are the real thing. 

goblin.jpg

 
 
 
cobaltblue
Junior Quiet
8.1  cobaltblue  replied to  Kavika @8    2 years ago
Their new mascot, the Goblin Shark, they are not a myth they are the real thing. 

I take comfort knowing that creature is beautiful to its mother. 

 
 

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