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Robert in Ohio

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By:  Robert in Ohio  •  life choices  •  one month ago  •  36 comments

Post Wisely
Civility is not a tactic or a sentiment. It is the determined choice of trust over cynicism, of community over chaos. George W. Bush

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Robert in Ohio
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1  author  Robert in Ohio    one month ago

The text above makes the point I wanted to share !

 
 
 
Freewill
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1.1  Freewill  replied to  Robert in Ohio @1    one month ago
The text above makes the point I wanted to share !

Indeed the quotes you provided by G.W. Bush and JFK make the very points I have been trying to make for years in this venue, of course much more eloquently and succinctly than I ever could.  It strikes me sad to think that some will read these quotes and immediately conclude that they are aimed merely at those with whom they find angry disagreement, all the while missing the opportunity for honest introspection. I think the intent and point here is pretty clear:

"So let us begin anew -- remembering on both sides that civility is not a sign of weakness, and sincerity is always subject to proof. Let us never negotiate out of fear, but let us never fear to negotiate. Let both sides explore what problems unite us instead of belaboring those problems which divide us."
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John F. Kennedy
 
 
 
Greg Jones
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3  Greg Jones    one month ago

In my opinion, based on a few years of observation, that one side of the aisle has become accustomed to belittling, taunting, and bullying those on the other side of the aisle for the views and opinions they hold.[]

 
 
 
Gsquared
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3.1  Gsquared  replied to  Greg Jones @3    one month ago
one side of the aisle has become accustomed to belittling, taunting, and bullying those on the other side of the aisle for the views and opinions they hold

That accurately describes the conduct of numerous Republican politicians for many years.  One of the primary proponents of that type of conduct was, of course, Newt Gingrich, a leading Republican who became Speaker of the House until he was forced to resign because of an ethics scandal.

he [Gingrich] transformed the speech of the political right from pointed rhetoric to sheer vitriol, referring to past and present Democratic speakers of the House as “crooks,” “traitors,” and “thugs.

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Gingrich used words like “decay, traitors, radical, sick, destroy, pathetic, corruption, and shame” when referring to Democrats.

In fact, Gingrich produced a pamphlet for Republican propagandists (politicians) titled "Language: A Key Mechanism of Control" in which he recommended the use of words and phrases such as "anti-child" and "anti-flag", as well as the words quoted above for use when discussing the political opposition, i.e., Democratic politicians.

Today, Trump had adopted and expanded the use of belittling, taunting and bullying far beyond anything seen in the past.  In this he is supported by many of his core sycophants including J.D. Vance and Marjorie Taylor Greene among others.

 
 
 
Tessylo
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3.1.1  Tessylo  replied to  Gsquared @3.1    one month ago

You are correct Gsquared - I feel/felt the same way, that Newt indeed was the start of this agnorance which has continued and devolved into the teabaggers and now today's maga cult.  The beginning of the end of reaching across the aisle and compromise and the dissolution of the gop.

 
 
 
Snuffy
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3.2  Snuffy  replied to  Greg Jones @3    one month ago

To be fair it's a both sides thing. Not everyone on each side. Each has their ubber-partisans who seem willing to fight anything and everyone for what they deem is right and just, and each has their moderates who are willing to kind of discuss. 

Problem is neither side seems to be even willing to take a step back. Time has shown us that if one side takes a step back the other will double their attacks. It's truly no-win anymore.

 
 
 
shona1
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4  shona1    one month ago

Morning..out of all the sayings I like this one the best..

It seems rather relevant, even in today's society...and one I take to heart..

Not my text...

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Buzz of the Orient
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4.1  Buzz of the Orient  replied to  shona1 @4    one month ago

How about this....

To Thine Own Self Be True

Origin of To Thine Own Self Be True

This  phrase  is one of the countless  famous  quotes coined by  William Shakespeare . In Act 1, Scene III of the famous  play Hamlet , Polonius says:

“This above all:  to thine own self be true
And it must follow, as the  night  the day
Thou canst not then be false to any man/Farewell, my blessing season this in thee!”

Today, these words of Polonius are pearls of wisdom by Shakespeare on living a good and balanced life.

Meaning of To Thine Own Self Be True

The Elizabethan era  audience  of Shakespeare was well aware of the meaning of his words, though in modern age, words like “Self” and “True” have different. In fact, this phrase implies multiplicity of meanings. The first meaning is that someone can better judge himself if he has done what he should or could have done. The second meaning is that one must be honest in his ways and relations. The third meaning is that one must always do the right thing. Finally, keeping in view the  character  of Polonius in the play, many scholars are of the opinion that ‘True’ meant beneficial; therefore, his advice to his son meant that he must think of his own benefit first.

LINK -> To Thine Own Self Be True - Meaning, Origin, and Usage (literarydevices.net)

It is the last of all advice given by Polonius to his son Laertes before he was leaving for France. 

 
 
 
Thomas
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4.1.1  Thomas  replied to  Buzz of the Orient @4.1    one month ago

And now for something completely different, but it's not Monty Python

 
 
 
Buzz of the Orient
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4.1.2  Buzz of the Orient  replied to  Thomas @4.1.1    one month ago

Thank you, Thomas, but most members here know by now that I'm unable to open YoiuTube, so since you posted it in a reply to me I would appreciate your telling me what it is you posted. 

 
 
 
shona1
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4.1.3  shona1  replied to  Buzz of the Orient @4.1.2    one month ago

A skit from Gilligan's island and they are doing a play quoting Shakespeare ..

 
 
 
Buzz of the Orient
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4.1.4  Buzz of the Orient  replied to  shona1 @4.1.3    one month ago

Thank you, shona1.

 
 
 
Thomas
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4.1.5  Thomas  replied to  Buzz of the Orient @4.1.2    one month ago

Sorry, Buzz. 

Thank you, Shona.

It was Hamlet as envisioned by Gilligan and friends. The part that had always stuck in my brain was Polonius (Skipper) telling Layarties (MaryAnne), "Do not a lender nor a spender be. Do not forget:Stay out of debt!" at least that is how I remembered it, quite possibly because it fits the music better than "Nether a borrower nor a lender be... and just one other thing you ought to do, To thine own self be true!"

 
 
 
Buzz of the Orient
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4.1.6  Buzz of the Orient  replied to  Thomas @4.1.5    one month ago

Apology is unnecessary.  No problem.

 
 
 
Freewill
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4.2  Freewill  replied to  shona1 @4    one month ago

Excellent post Shona! Words of wisdom indeed! 

 
 
 
shona1
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4.2.1  shona1  replied to  Freewill @4.2    one month ago

Morning free...yes some say it was found in a Baltimore church around the 1690s others say some one wrote it 1920s...either way it is still appropriate and relevant today I think...

 
 
 
Freewill
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4.2.2  Freewill  replied to  shona1 @4.2.1    4 weeks ago

Indeed!

 
 
 
Split Personality
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5  Split Personality    one month ago

Too err is human, to forgive, divine.  Alexander Pope, 18th century poet.

 
 
 
Nerm_L
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6  Nerm_L    one month ago

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Nerm_L
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7  Nerm_L    one month ago

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Krishna
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7.1  Krishna  replied to  Nerm_L @7    one month ago
lose a kid to heroine

We often think of heroine's as being noble females.

But be forewarned-- don't let them near your sons for those sorts of women can be seductive-- addictive-- and heroine's will ruins their lives!

 
 
 
Buzz of the Orient
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7.1.1  Buzz of the Orient  replied to  Krishna @7.1    one month ago
"...heroine's will ruins their lives!"

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Krishna
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7.2  Krishna  replied to  Nerm_L @7    one month ago
Hilary Clinton to an audience of donors in New York City, New York

Here's the rest of it:

"Last night I was 'grossly generalistic,' and that's never a good idea. I regret saying 'half' — that was wrong. But let's be clear, what's really 'deplorable' is that Donald Trump hired a major advocate for the so-called 'alt-right' movement to run his campaign and that David Duke and other white supremacists see him as a champion of their values.

It's deplorable that Trump has built his campaign largely on prejudice and paranoia and given a national platform to hateful views and voices, including by retweeting fringe bigots with a few dozen followers and spreading their message to 11 million people. It's deplorable that he's attacked a federal judge for his 'Mexican heritage,' bullied a Gold Star family because of their Muslim faith, and promoted the lie that our first black president is not a true American.

So I won't stop calling out bigotry and racist rhetoric in this campaign. I also meant what I said last night about empathy, and the very real challenges we face as a country where so many people have been left out and left behind. As I said, many of Trump's supporters are hard-working Americans who just don't feel like the economy or our political system are working for them. I'm determined to bring our country together and make our economy work for everyone, not just those at the top. Because we really are 'stronger together.' "

 
 
 
Nerm_L
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7.2.1  Nerm_L  replied to  Krishna @7.2    one month ago

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Krishna
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7.2.2  Krishna  replied to  Nerm_L @7.2.1    one month ago
Clinton never bothered speaking the voters because only the institutional elite matter.

Actually I was following that campaign-- I personally saw her speaking to the voters-- on numerous occasions!

Perhaps you can try something else-- maybe try the "Stolen Valor" approach? (Or if that doesn't work-- how about the "Tampons in the Boys' Bathroom" gambit? )

Many people feel that a major issue of great importance!

 
 
 
Nerm_L
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7.2.3  Nerm_L  replied to  Krishna @7.2.2    one month ago

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Tessylo
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7.2.4  Tessylo  replied to  Krishna @7.2.2    one month ago

Excellent Krishna!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Thomas
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8  Thomas    one month ago

"Some are born to rule the world, to live their fantasy, but most of us just dream about the things we'd like to be. Sadder still to watch it die than never to have known it. For you the blind who once could see, the bell tolls for thee." Neil Peart with a nod to Ernest Hemingway.

Rush - "Losing It"

 
 
 
Buzz of the Orient
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8.1  Buzz of the Orient  replied to  Thomas @8    one month ago

Do you know the history behind the words "The bell tolls for thee"?  It goes back to well before Hemingway used it for his novel, and Hemingway did use the expression correctly, for its original meaning. 

 
 
 
Krishna
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8.1.1  Krishna  replied to  Buzz of the Orient @8.1    one month ago
Do you know the history behind the words "The bell tolls for thee"? 

I learned that in some English Literature course I took-- many Moons ago. But I forgot it.

 
 
 
Krishna
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8.1.2  Krishna  replied to  Krishna @8.1.1    one month ago
I learned that in some English Literature course I took-- many Moons ago. But I forgot it.

So I googled it.

And to my surprise I found more than one answer!

 
 
 
Buzz of the Orient
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8.1.3  Buzz of the Orient  replied to  Krishna @8.1.1    one month ago

John Donne's Meditation XVII, written in the early 17th century.

 
 
 
Thomas
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8.1.4  Thomas  replied to  Buzz of the Orient @8.1.3    one month ago

PERCHANCE he for whom this bell tolls may be so ill, as that he knows not it tolls for him; and perchance I may think myself so much better than I am, as that they who are about me, and see my state, may have caused it to toll for me, and I know not that.

The church is Catholic, universal, so are all her actions; all that she does belongs to all. When she baptizes a child, that action concerns me; for that child is thereby connected to that body which is my head too, and ingrafted into that body whereof I am a member.

And when she buries a man, that action concerns me: all mankind is of one author, and is one volume; when one man dies, one chapter is not torn out of the book, but translated into a better language; and every chapter must be so translated; God employs several translators; some pieces are translated by age, some by sickness, some by war, some by justice; but God's hand is in every translation, and his hand shall bind up all our scattered leaves again for that library where every book shall lie open to one another.

As therefore the bell that rings to a sermon calls not upon the preacher only, but upon the congregation to come, so this bell calls us all; but how much more me, who am brought so near the door by this sickness. There was a contention as far as a suit (in which both piety and dignity, religion and estimation, were mingled), which of the religious orders should ring to prayers first in the morning; and it was determined, that they should ring first that rose earliest. If we understand aright the dignity of this bell that tolls for our evening prayer, we would be glad to make it ours by rising early, in that application, that it might be ours as well as his, whose indeed it is.

The bell doth toll for him that thinks it doth; and though it intermit again, yet from that minute that that occasion wrought upon him, he is united to God. Who casts not up his eye to the sun when it rises? but who takes off his eye from a comet when that breaks out? Who bends not his ear to any bell which upon any occasion rings? but who can remove it from that bell which is passing a piece of himself out of this world?
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No man is an island, entire of itself; every man is a piece of the continent, a part of the main. If a clod be washed away by the sea, Europe is the less, as well as if a promontory were, as well as if a manor of thy friend's or of thine own were: any man's death diminishes me, because I am involved in mankind, and therefore never send to know for whom the bells tolls; it tolls for thee.

Neither can we call this a begging of misery, or a borrowing of misery, as though we were not miserable enough of ourselves, but must fetch in more from the next house, in taking upon us the misery of our neighbours. Truly it were an excusable covetousness if we did, for affliction is a treasure, and scarce any man hath enough of it. No man hath affliction enough that is not matured and ripened by and made fit for God by that affliction. If a man carry treasure in bullion, or in a wedge of gold, and have none coined into current money, his treasure will not defray him as he travels. Tribulation is treasure in the nature of it, but it is not current money in the use of it, except we get nearer and nearer our home, heaven, by it.

Another man may be sick too, and sick to death, and this affliction may lie in his bowels, as gold in a mine, and be of no use to him; but this bell, that tells me of his affliction, digs out and applies that gold to me: if by this consideration of another's danger I take mine own into contemplation, and so secure myself, by making my recourse to my God, who is our only security.

Formatting note: I added some breaks in the paragraph to make it easier to read on a computer screen. The only Break in the original is indicated by the underscore.

 
 
 
Buzz of the Orient
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8.1.5  Buzz of the Orient  replied to  Thomas @8.1.4    one month ago

Thank you Thomas.  Now to connect to why and how Hemingway made use of it for his novel For Whom the Bell Tolls.  The key is Donne's line "No man is an island, entire of itself; every man is a piece of the continent, a part of the main."  Donne is saying that we are all connected, a part of one another, and should one of us die, we all die a little. 

The way I was taught to understand it in a simple way - back in those days there was no method of mass communication as we have now, but if a person were to die in the village, the church would toll its bell, and the people would go to the church to find out who died.  Donne is saying to not go to the Church to seek out who died, because it was tolling for all of us - when one person died, we all died a little, because as I said above, we are all a part of each other, we are all so connected. 

And so the American in the novel went to Spain and joined the people in their cause against the fascists because in his mind they were a part of him and he was a part of them, their cause became his cause.  Just as like we are all pages in a book.  That is why Hemingway used the expression For Whom the Bell Tolls for the title, as it was also the theme.

The study of English Literature was so rewarding.

 
 
 
Buzz of the Orient
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8.1.7  Buzz of the Orient  replied to  Thomas @8.1.4    one month ago

It appears, Thomas, that English lessons are not exactly appreciated on this site save for a very few - as I learned by posting Jane Austen articles.