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ABC’s What Would You Do? Features Angry Atheist Yelling at Praying Family in a Restaurant

  

Category:  Religion & Ethics

Via:  hal-a-lujah  •  10 years ago  •  36 comments

ABC’s  What Would You Do? Features Angry Atheist Yelling at Praying Family in a Restaurant
http://www.patheos.com/blogs/friendlyatheist/2015/07/19/abcs-what-would-you-do-features-angry-atheist-yelling-at-praying-family-in-a-restaurant/ If you havent seen ABCs show What Would You Do? and you wont want to after this the premise is pretty self-explanatory. As the shows website states, it establishes everyday scenarios and then captures peoples reactions. So you might see a segment in which an actor clearly steals an item from a store and the cameras zoom in on the other customers to see how they react: Do they tell someone or do they ignore it? You get the idea.On Friday night, the show started out just fine. A military vet went to purchase diapers for his baby, but the cashier told him his credit card was declined. Will anyone help the poor soldier?! (Spoiler: They will! Yay America!)But the next segment took a strange turn.The setup featured a family (of actors) in a restaurant praying before a meal.Another actor, portraying an atheist, freaked out and started yelling at them to keep their religion to themselves. (I have a right to eat without you forcing your religion down my throat!)The show wanted to see how the other diners would respond.But thats irrelevant. Lets step back and admit thats an awful scenario to begin with because its completely implausible. Its as if the producers asked themselves how they could portray atheists in the worst way possible and then ran with it.This isnt a government meeting. Why the hell would we care if anyone prays at a restaurant? We might not do it ourselves, but anyone who complains in that situation is an asshole, plain and simple.Am I overreacting? I dont think so. This isnt an everyday scenario at all. Its a situation that only exists in the fantasies of the Religious Right.I know a hell of a lot of atheists and not a single one would ever treat a praying family at a restaurant with that much disrespect.They ran the scenario four separate times, and each time, the patrons lashed out at the atheist for getting in the middle of the familys grace. Im glad they did. But its worth noting that a lot of atheists in the same situation would have done the exact same thing.Unlike the other segments, where theres some ambiguity about what might happen, this was a no-brainer.All we learned here was that Christians are awesome and atheists are jerks.Again, my biggest problem with the segment is that the show tells viewers that these are common situations they might find themselves in one day. in this case, thats not true at all.Not that theyll care, but if youre as frustrated as I am, you can send your feedback to the network right here. When it asks you to select the program, youll have to scroll down to Show Not Listed.Lets hope thats a sign of things to come.***Update***: Theres a huge backlash to this segment on the shows Facebook page.

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Hal A. Lujah
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link   seeder  Hal A. Lujah    10 years ago
I can think of one member here who would believe that this is a common every day situation.
 
 
 
Hal A. Lujah
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link   seeder  Hal A. Lujah    10 years ago
I've never watched it, but the article certainly disagrees with your doubts. I wonder if they've played out a segment where an angry street preacher barks condemnation into the faces of strangers passing by - a scenario that can be witnessed on a busy street corner in any given city.They could do a segment in front of a Planned Parenthood, where actors entering the facility are degraded by other actors playing the part of christian zealots. That would not only be in poor taste, it wouldn't even be surprising or entertaining.
 
 
 
Aeonpax
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link   Aeonpax    10 years ago

I would quietly get up and tell the manager/assistant/supervisor to tell them all to STFU.

 
 
 
Sophia Descertes
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link   Sophia Descertes    10 years ago

I love this show! Sometimes it's funny, sometimes it's kinda scary, and sometimes it makes you feel good about people.

I do think some of the scenarios are super fake, as in they aren't very real like. I saw one where a guy slips a pill into a girl's drink to see if anyone would tell her, and they did. The reason it bothered me is because that's not just wrong and bad, it's illegal, and faking crimes in front of people is rather dangerous. Somebody could get hurt.

 
 
 
1stwarrior
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link   1stwarrior    10 years ago

I'd steal your moped - not to save the atheist - I've just always wanted a moped. It'll look cute next to my HarleyGrin.gif

 
 
 
Cerenkov
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link   Cerenkov    10 years ago
Wow they really hit a nerve! I think you should furiously disbelieve in ABC! That'll show them!
 
 
 
Dean Moriarty
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link   Dean Moriarty    10 years ago

I'd probably just sit there smiling viewing it as entertainment.

 
 
 
Mark in Wyoming
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link   Mark in Wyoming     10 years ago

I think the point of the show in general is being missed. To me , it takes situations that in all probability , have no chance of actually happening in most cases , but could happen if someone becomes too close minded or over zealious .

To me the show in general is produced to make someone ( the viewer )think, and decide for themselves what they would do if confronted with such a situation no matter how mundane , or outrages.

Lets change the scenario to a gay family saying grace and its an extreme follower of the bible and its writings (Westboro Baptist church type), does that change things a bit? as the shows title , what would you do ? more importantly how would you do it? see what I mean by its meant to make one think about their own personal actions?

 
 
 
Petey Coober
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link   Petey Coober    10 years ago

I had no idea that ABC knew of your exploits Hal ...

 
 
 
Hal A. Lujah
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link   seeder  Hal A. Lujah    10 years ago
I guess you missed this crucial part of the issue:

"... the show tells viewers that these are common situations they might find themselves in one day."Do you seriously think that shoplifting or slipping a girl a pill in her drink at a bar are situations that have 'no chance of actually happening?'
 
 
 
Hal A. Lujah
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link   seeder  Hal A. Lujah    10 years ago
That could be the least coherent thought ever expressed on NT. Congrats.
 
 
 
Hal A. Lujah
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link   seeder  Hal A. Lujah    10 years ago
Cerenkov, you are a cunthair away from being an atheist yourself, as you have stated before right here on NT. Are you also not offended when your ethnicity gets lampooned on prime time television?
 
 
 
Hal A. Lujah
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link   seeder  Hal A. Lujah    10 years ago
I had no idea you didn't know how to read. I mean, your lack of ability to understand anything in print has always been palpable, but with that statement it's clear that the act of reading itself escapes you.
 
 
 
Petey Coober
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link   Petey Coober    10 years ago

It's been fun watching your perpetual anti-Christian tantrums on NT . And the way you hide that by pretending you are against all religion ... hilarious !

 
 
 
Hal A. Lujah
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link   seeder  Hal A. Lujah    10 years ago
I am and always have been against all religion. Another clear sign that you can't read.
 
 
 
Cerenkov
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link   Cerenkov    10 years ago
No, I'm not. I don't have the energy to be offended by everything that is shown in mainstream media. Those actors are not avatars of any entire class of people. In fact, this show is based on taking the worst examples of any group. I think the current predilection to be personally outraged so often is part of the reason our society has become so hyper-partisan. If someone came out and said that these fictional atheists reflected the behavior of most atheists or agnostics (like myself), I would certainly protest that.
 
 
 
Petey Coober
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link   Petey Coober    10 years ago

You are excellent about deluding yourself ... no doubt .

 
 
 
Cerenkov
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link   Cerenkov    10 years ago
I think that the atheist scenario depicted is probably not incredible, although I assume it would be very rare at best. Dirty glances would be more common.
 
 
 
screminmimi
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link   screminmimi    10 years ago

Hal,

Though we are often at odds on viewpoint and politics, I agree with you completely here. I see many people, especially older ones and families, bow their heads and pray before eating in restaurants; I've never seen anyone, ever, stand up and protest the action. As you know, I live in the Deep South, and praying before meals is pretty common here, even in nice restaurants.

This episode was scraping the bottom of the barrel.

 
 
 
Hal A. Lujah
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link   seeder  Hal A. Lujah    10 years ago
The whole point of this article is that that never happens in reality. Unfortunately, I'm still trying to figure the point of your comment.
 
 
 
Hal A. Lujah
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link   seeder  Hal A. Lujah    10 years ago
I dont know any atheists who attempt to interfere with what a religionist does, so long as it is only impacting the religionists. I may mock their bizarre rituals, but never to their face or in a manner that is noticeable to them. My fianc and I crack religious jokes amongst ourselves all the time, but the humor is personal. For instance, if I see a cross hanging somewhere, I may say "look, there's another one of those "t" thingies." And she may reply "but that one doesn't have that bloody guy hanging from it." Sometimes at dinner I will make the sign of the cross to crack her up. That's how we deal with being surrounded by that crap all the time. It is never confrontational with others.
 
 
 
Hal A. Lujah
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link   seeder  Hal A. Lujah    10 years ago
It's not mainstream media, it's primetime television with millions of unsuspecting viewers being told that this situation happens all the time. That shit is to be expected in the media, but making it the plot line of a show that is intended to be representative of real life is insulting on a whole other level. How many kids saw that and now think that's just what atheists do?
 
 
 
Hal A. Lujah
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link   seeder  Hal A. Lujah    10 years ago
I've never seen it happen, I don't know anyone who has ever seen it happen, Hemant Mehta has never seen it happen, and I sincerely doubt that you have either.
 
 
 
Cerenkov
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link   Cerenkov    10 years ago
How many kids watched Captain Planet and decided nuclear power was villainous. It's all bread and circuses.
 
 
 
Cerenkov
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link   Cerenkov    10 years ago
I've seen sneers and dirty looks.
 
 
 
Hal A. Lujah
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link   seeder  Hal A. Lujah    10 years ago
From religionists? Yeah, I've seen that too. Try being the only parent of kids at the local Catholic school that doesn't attend mass.
 
 
 
Cerenkov
Professor Silent
link   Cerenkov    10 years ago
No, from atheists.
 
 
 
LynneA
Freshman Silent
link   LynneA    10 years ago

The premise of this entire segment doesn't reflect any scenario I've ever witnessed in restaurants. I've seen people pray over their meal even my family has on occasion, but I've yet to hear any patrons complain or protest. It was a cheap shot at atheists as they were depicted as intolerant, even to the point of being spiteful, angry individuals.

Certainly not an "everyday scenario".

 
 
 
Enoch
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link   Enoch    10 years ago

Dear Friend 1st Warrior: Harley Hogs.

Takes me back to my grad school days.

Ridin with the wind in my hair.

(I had hair then).

Ah, great memories of bygone times.

E.

 
 
 
Dowser
Sophomore Quiet
link   Dowser    10 years ago

I've watched this before and found few of them to be everyday situations... Like you, I can't imagine a family that is quietly praying upsetting anyone.

I, too, dislike how atheists are depicted in that scenario, and feel it should have been better thought out.

 
 

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