Another What Would You Do Article!!
So there is a, a couple that you and your significant other arevery good friends with.The four of you grew up together.You stood up for their wedding, and they stood up for your wedding. Your children call them Aunt and Uncle, and their children call you Aunt and Uncle.
You and your partner are out for a nice dinner, and you see one of your friends with cuddling with someone other than their partner...........WHAT DO YO DO???
Do you let them know that you saw them? Do you keep it to yourself? Do you tell their partner??
What do you do???
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What would you do and why??
normally I would say, "Space the final frontier,....these are the adventures of,....but then I have nothing. So I think I would go up to the cuddlier and ask to be introduced to the new cuddle. This would let the coddler know that I knew they in fact had a new cuddle. Now if this doesn't way in on the coddlers conscience then I think the relationship between the coddler and the cuddle (their spouse) is over and none of my business....
MYOB (Mind Your Own Business)
No matter what you do, or don't do, it's wrong. Plus, you've got to be sure it was one of your friends. I'm really good at thinking I see people and it's not them... I would behave as if I didn't see them, and just go on and eat and do my thing.
No brainer.
(which interpreted in friendship speak means no mouther or zip it)
Best thing to do is try and sneak out without being seen.
It depends upon which one was doing the cheating. If it was the wife,I would probably know about it already, which is not toimply that I would approve. If I didn't know about it, I would probably shoot an image with my phone and then send it to her afterI wasout of sight. Then it would be up to her to determine ifshe wanted to talk to me about it.
If it was the husband, we would probably sneak away unseen, regardless of how much I wanted to confront him. The only difference would be that the instantmyhubby and I returned home, I would probably start slapping the snot out of him in a pay it forward kind of way.Guys don't cheat in ones, they cheat in groups.
No matter what you do, or don't do, it's wrong. Sad, but true....
OK folks....let's try this approach.......would you want someone to tell YOU that they saw your significant other messing aroundwith someone else???
The only difference would be that the instantmyhubby and I returned home, I would probably start slapping the snot out of him in a pay it forward kind of way lol...You Go Girl!!!
I fall into the samecamp Jw2blue, "the fess up or get out" line is one I've had to use a time or three over the years, but in those situations I only knew the cheater well, not the spouse.
However the scenario that Nona62 set up where your friends with both sides of the couple in question puts a bit more stress on the "what to do" problem.
I say that because I've seen how hurt the one being cheated on can be if they find out thatyou knew what was going on and didn't clue them in. They can take that as a betrayal of truston your part that isonly slightly less devastating than the betrayal of trust from their significant other.
Dam I'm glad I no longer have to deal with humans! To much hurt in the world.
Yes.
There are advantages to being Hermit.
Nope, But then again I have an honest person as a mate, she would tell me herself.
Not that I give a crap, if a little bit of sex can destroy a life long partnership, one would have to ask oneself was the relationship actually based upon love?
I trust her, I love her, what more needs to be asked. I certainly am not going to judge her.
Sounds like a very solid relationship!!
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I agree 100% !!
Weird.....I'm getting old replies popping as new replies.....hhmmm
Shoot them?
Shoot them? The old replies????
Hey blue...
You should stop sharing my best ideas!
Damn You!
NO!
I'm with you-- I don't want to know!
It puts an end to the affair! Whenever I had an affair on one of my wives I always told them. I'm a terrible liar and pathetically honest.
Spousal abuse is OK if it's the woman hitting the man? Since when?