10 basic practical skills every boomer has that younger people can't even fathom
By: Adam Kelton (VegOut)
The real skill is knowing how to fold a map after reading it.
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Every generation loves to tease the one that came before it, but let’s be honest: boomers have some incredibly practical skills that many younger people never learned.
I’m not talking about abstract wisdom or vague life advice.
I’m talking about the hands-on, everyday stuff that once felt as essential as breathing but now seems almost exotic.
It’s funny. In my twenties working in luxury hospitality, I was surrounded by tech, innovation, fancy equipment, and sleek systems.
Yet half the time, the most competent people in the room were the older chefs or managers who grew up fixing things by hand, not by Googling solutions.
Today, I want to look at ten basic skills boomers often have that younger generations struggle with and what we can learn from them.
Let’s get into it.
1) Reading and understanding a map
When was the last time you used a paper map?
Exactly.
Most younger folks panic when their phone signal drops because Google Maps can’t load the route.
Boomers, on the other hand, used to navigate entire road trips with a folded map the size of a small tablecloth.
There’s something almost meditative about reading a physical map. It forces you to slow down, visualize the terrain, and actually understand where you are instead of blindly following a blue dot.
Whenever I travel to smaller towns, I notice how dependent I am on tech.
And every time the signal cuts out, I catch myself thinking, “I should have learned how to do this properly.”
2) Writing in cursive that’s actually readable
I grew up writing essays on a computer, tapping away on keyboards long before anyone taught me how to properly loop an S or connect a capital G.
Boomers wrote entire school careers by hand.
And not the scribbly doctor handwriting we joke about. Actual aesthetically pleasing cursive.
There’s research showing that writing by hand improves memory and brain activity. Whenever I journal, I’m reminded how grounding it feels to physically create my own letters.
But half the time, even I struggle to read what I wrote.
Boomers would never have tolerated that kind of chaos.
3) Fixing simple household problems without calling someone
One of my older mentors used to say, “If a screwdriver can fix it, it’s not a real problem.”
Younger people didn’t grow up repairing toasters, patching drywall, or replacing fuses. Our default move is usually something like, “I’ll watch a guy on YouTube do it.”
Meanwhile, boomers opened things up, poked around, and figured it out.
You know that moment in a restaurant kitchen when a piece of equipment suddenly stops working?
The older chefs always had a way to rig a temporary fix with a butter knife and some tape. It was part confidence, part curiosity, part necessity.
4) Balancing a checkbook or tracking finances manually
I’m not suggesting we all go buy ledger books, but boomers learned money management the old-fashioned way with pen, paper, and calculators that weighed as much as a dinner plate.
Because of that, many of them built a level of financial intuition younger people don’t always develop.
When everything is automated, you lose the subtle awareness of how money moves.
There is something powerful about manually tracking your spending , even just for a month. It forces you to confront your habits in a way an app never will.
5) Writing formal letters
Email killed the art of proper communication.
I’m not talking about DMs or Slack messages. I mean the kind of letters with greetings, structured thoughts, and polite closings that do not end with emojis.
Boomers learned how to express themselves clearly because they had to. When everything wasn’t rushed, shortened, or typed on a phone, people learned to think before they wrote.
Some of the best hospitality professionals I worked with were older managers who knew exactly how to word a firm, diplomatic message.
There is a lot to learn from that, especially today when half of our communication is barely coherent.
6) Cooking without recipes and without panicking
You know what always impresses me? Watching someone from an older generation cook.
No measurements. No timers. No recipe videos propped up on the counter.
They add ingredients by intuition, saying things like “just until it looks right” or “you’ll know when it’s done.”
In my food-writing career, I’ve met chefs who remember learning from grandmothers who never owned a cookbook. Everything was muscle memory and sensory awareness.
Younger people can make intricate meals, sure, but many feel lost without exact instructions. There is something beautiful about cooking from instinct.
7) Calling instead of texting when something matters
This might sound funny, but picking up the phone is a skill.
Boomers know how to talk through a misunderstanding, handle logistics, or resolve an issue with real-time dialogue.
Younger generations lean on texting because it feels safer and more controlled, but a lot gets lost without tone and immediate back-and-forth.
I once read a study showing that phone conversations increase connection and trust more than written exchanges. It makes sense. Humans are wired for vocal communication.
Sometimes the simplest solution is the hardest for us. Just dial the number.
8) Doing mental math
Listen, I’ll be honest. The minute I’m faced with a slightly complicated calculation, my first reaction is to reach for my phone.
But boomers calculate tips, budgets, unit prices, and interest rates in their heads like it’s nothing.
In hospitality, I saw this constantly. Older managers would tally invoices or calculate cost percentages mentally while younger staff scrambled for calculators.
Is mental math essential today? Not always. But it definitely sharpens your brain and boosts confidence.
9) Sewing and mending clothes
Boomers grew up in a time when repairing was normal and replacing was a last resort.
A torn seam? Fix it. Missing button? Sew it back on. Small rip? Patch it.
Younger generations often treat clothes as disposable, but sewing is such a grounding skill.
There is something deeply satisfying about giving new life to something you already own.
I once watched an older aunt fix a shirt in under three minutes while carrying a full conversation.
Meanwhile, I’m over here searching up “how to thread a needle.”
10) Waiting patiently without needing constant stimulation
And finally, the most underrated skill many boomers have is being okay with boredom.
They grew up without screens, without endless entertainment, and without doomscrolling. They waited in lines, sat through commercials, stared out of windows, and dealt with long silences.
The ability to be present without fidgeting or refreshing is a life tool that feels rare today.
Whenever I travel and don’t have cell service, I’m reminded how good it feels to simply exist for a moment. You notice more. You think more clearly.
You get ideas that never surface while distracted.
Meanwhile, younger people feel phantom vibrations and reach for a phone that isn’t even buzzing.
Being comfortable with stillness is a superpower.
The bottom line
These skills aren’t boomer magic. They are simply things people learned because life required it.
But there is something refreshing about reconnecting with these basics.
They make us more capable, more grounded, and a little less dependent on the small computers we carry around.
Maybe the question isn’t why younger generations struggle with these abilities. Maybe it is which of these skills do I actually want to reclaim.
Becoming more capable is not about age. It is about awareness, practice, and a willingness to step outside convenience once in a while.
Until next time.
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To me, the listed items are just the way things are done.
I can do all that except sewing
When I make jambalaya or chili I have a general idea of what the ingredients are but I will play with them at the moment. Its a fun way to cook.
My wife an I have two different cooking styles.
She has the science approach. Follow the recipe exactly
I have the artistic approach. Make slight changes and never use measuring devices. Except for my mothers gravy(sauce). You don't mess with that recipe.
Baking is a science. It has to be precise or you end up with a kitchen disaster. I cook like you unless it's something I've never cooked before. Mr Giggles gets nervous when I open a cookbook, study the recipe, then shut the book and start cooking
The best chefs agree with you.
Except when they're on the job. In a restaurant consistency is everything.
If you show a kid today just the face of a rotary phone they will have no idea what it is.
I can sew a button on if need be!
It's good to call instead of text but too many people's lives seem to be centered on their phones and being connected all the time
I can ask my wife to sew a button if need be.
you don't know how to sew a button?
If I had too I am sure I could, I was being a bit facetious. But if we get to hemming I would probably end up in the hospital or have one leg a few inches shorter than the other.
lol
you're not supposed to hem your pants while you're wearing them
hemming is not easy. I usually take stuff to a seamstress because I want it done properly
That explains it then. I suppose next you are going to tell me not to drink a six pack before doing it.
Go ahead and drink the six pack but take your pants off first
Okay, I'm butting in here - but - why are you trying to get RDC out of their pants?
I can't tell if there's too much beer or not enough.
I don;t want him to sew his big toe to his hem...go back upthread and see where this convo started
Hopefully without TMI but I can't wait to see my wife's reaction when I drink a six pack of beer and then take my pants off.
we don;t need video lol
Went from Cub Scout to Boy Scout to Explorer Scout to becoming a Paramedic to earning a degree in Environmental Science. All while building hot rods and playing in rock bands.
Always took to heart Robert Heinlein's quote... "A human being should be able to change a diaper, plan an invasion, butcher a hog, Conn a ship, design a building, write a sonnet, balance accounts, build a wall, set a bone, comfort the dying, take orders, give orders, cooperate, act alone, solve equations, analyze a new problem, pitch manure, program a computer, cook a tasty meal, fight efficiently, die gallantly. Specialization is for insects."
On the flip side, the younger generation seems to have their own language and memes that the rest of us are oblivious to (six seven), and do excel at online workflows that aren’t intuitive to older folks.
I have to get my son-in-law to help with my phone
If you want to create a website, get a teenager.
There’s research showing that writing by hand improves memory and brain activity. Whenever I journal, I’m reminded how grounding it feels to physically create my own letters.
In some eastern systems of mysticism there is the belief that there are centers of subtle endergies at different points in the body. There are 7 of these "Chakras" spaced along the spine (from the area of the tailbone to over the head). These are the major chakras.
One way to activate them (and/or increase their power) is via meditation.
(One way to learn about the is by reading materials fromThe Edgar Cayce A.R.E. website*)
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*If you are interested in the Cayce website, go to the online site of the Casey Foundation main headquarters (in Virginia Beach), not some of the other local ones.
These "Major Chakras" are well known by people familiar with these forms of "mysticism"...(and often by people who are naturally 'intuitive').
But what some folks don't know is that there are many, many lesser Chakras. For example, in the palms of each hand.
Which is why on some level writing is more powerfl than typing . . .
Thanks for the link
. Looks like there's a lot of information there...I will check it out when I get a chance.
Some say Casey was last seen halfway up Mt Shasta.
I sometimes hold up a pencil and ask if they know what it is.
I had a young tech person set up a new printer a couple of years ago. I asked him to make certain I could print out envelopes. He looked at me like I was crazy and said he had never used an envelope in his life. I definitely asked him if he knew what a pencil is.
Blow his mind with a check ripped out of a tattered checkbook. Man, times have changed.
It is a very different world than the one we grew up in.
The older chefs always had a way to rig a temporary fix with a butter knife and some tape. It was part confidence, part curiosity, part necessity.
That reminds me of an old joke (there's a lot of truth to this):
REDNECK TOOLKIT = Duct tape and WD40
If it moves and it shouldn't use the Duct tape
If it doesn't move and it should, use the WD40.