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The Smearing of Woody Allen

  

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Via:  bob-nelson  •  6 years ago  •  117 comments

The Smearing of Woody Allen

Soon after Rolling Stone published a sensational — and, as it turned out, false — account of a gang rape at a University of Virginia fraternity, Richard Bradley, the editor of Worth magazine, suspected that something was amiss.

Basic journalistic rules, such as seeking comment from the alleged perpetrators, had not been observed, he noted on his blog. Details of the assault, one of which seemed ripped from “Silence of the Lambs,” were lurid past the point of plausibility.

merlin_85211981_7486dd44-6a98-4fe2-95ea- Woody Allen on a film set in 2014.
Damon Winter/The New York Times

But what most stirred Bradley’s doubt was how perfectly the story played “into existing biases,” especially the sorts of biases Rolling Stone readers might harbor about fraternity life at Southern universities.

Since the account of the rape “felt” true, it was easy to assume it was. Since the alleged victim had supposedly suffered grievous harm, it was awkward to challenge her version of events. Since important people took the story on faith and sought to press it into the service of an undeniably noble cause, the story’s moral truth overwhelmed its factual one.

All this, Bradley knew, was the surest way to fall for the biggest lies. It’s a caution that could serve journalists and the wider public well in the case of Woody Allen’s alleged molestation, in 1992, of his then-7-year-old adoptive daughter, Dylan Farrow.

The case is news again thanks to Farrow, who in December penned an op-ed for The Los Angeles Times titled, “Why Has the #MeToo Revolution Spared Woody Allen?” She repeated her charges against Allen in a tearful interview last month on CBS, and her efforts seem to have had their intended effect: From Mira Sorvino to Natalie Portman, A-list actors are expressing bitter regrets for having worked with Allen. The director is officially radioactive.

But if Farrow wants an answer to her question, it’s because we know that the charges #MeToo has leveled against men such as Harvey Weinstein or Kevin Spacey are almost certainly true. The reason they have not been spared is because they are guilty beyond a reasonable doubt. The facts, not the allegations, prove it.

Not so with Allen and Farrow. The only in-depth, contemporaneous and independent investigation into the allegations, conducted over several months by the Yale-New Haven Hospital in 1992 and 1993, noted that there were “important inconsistencies in Dylan’s statements,” and that “her descriptions of the details surrounding the alleged events were unusual and were inconsistent.” It concluded categorically: “It is our expert opinion that Dylan was not sexually abused by Mr. Allen.”

That investigation (most of which remains under seal) may or may not be dispositive. It has been criticized over the years, including by a judge who ruled against Allen in his custody battle for Dylan and her siblings.

But since the State of Connecticut declined to press charges against Allen, it is what we have to go on. Shouldn’t the weight of available evidence, to say nothing of the presumption of innocence, extend to the court of public opinion, too?

That is a thought lost in some of the commentary about the case. Dylan Farrow is a persuasive interviewee who seems absolutely sincere in her belief that she was molested by Allen as a child. Allen, by contrast, comes across as a grouchy neurotic who, in his late 50s, had a distasteful affair with Mia Farrow’s adopted, barely adult daughter, Soon-Yi Previn. In the contest of sympathies, it’s not hard to guess who wins.

But it’s precisely because Dylan’s account plays to our existing biases that we need to treat it with added skepticism. Most parents know that young children are imaginative and suggestible and innocently prone to making things up. The misuse of children’s memories by ambitious prosecutors against day-care center operators in the 1980s led to some of the worst miscarriages of justice in recent U.S. history. You don’t have to doubt Farrow’s honesty to doubt her version of events.

Nor have we learned anything else about Allen in the intervening years that might add to suspicions of guilt. He married Soon-Yi and has been with her ever since. Nobody else has come forward in 25 years with a fresh accusation of assault against him.

If Allen is in fact a pedophile, he appears to have acted on his evil fantasies exactly once. Compare that to Larry Nassar’s 265 identified victims.

It goes without saying that child molestation is a uniquely evil crime that merits the stiffest penalties. But accusing someone of being a molester without abundant evidence is also odious, particularly in an era in which social-media whispers can become the ruin of careers and even of lives.

That’s something for all of us to think about, even when it comes to wealthy, peculiar old men for whom we feel no love. We still live in a country that paints a bright line between accusation and fact. Smear the accused, smudge the line, and the truth will never out.

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by Bret Stephens

NYT Opinion

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Bob Nelson
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1  seeder  Bob Nelson    6 years ago

I'm not sure I agree with one of Stephens's two lines of argument. He says that if a set of information pleases us, we should be wary of it... because writers purposefully try to "win us". This seems to me to be a formula for paranoia and conspiracy theories. It's simpler to be wary of all information...

OTOH, the fact that the only serious inquiry into the Allen/Farrow conflict concluded that nothing had happened... and the fact that the competent authorities have never brought charges... do require us to apply the presumption of innocence.

OMG... I have been convinced by Brett Stephens!  close call   Will my soul be foever blackened??  good one

 
 
 
luther28
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2  luther28    6 years ago

Allen, by contrast, comes across as a grouchy neurotic who, in his late 50s, had a distasteful affair with Mia Farrow’s adopted, barely adult daughter, Soon-Yi Previn. In the contest of sympathies, it’s not hard to guess who wins.

From my point of view, Mr. Allen began the initial application of the smear by this activity. It's a bit too hinky for me to digest.

 
 
 
Bob Nelson
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2.1  seeder  Bob Nelson  replied to  luther28 @2    6 years ago
... had a distasteful affair with Mia Farrow’s adopted, barely adult daughter, Soon-Yi Previn.

Woody and Soon-Yi are still married, 25 years later. How is that distasteful?

 
 
 
Perrie Halpern R.A.
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2.1.1  Perrie Halpern R.A.  replied to  Bob Nelson @2.1    6 years ago

Are you kidding Bob? He played the father role in the house, and then marries the girl who he fathered? That isn't gross to you?

I don't care how long they are married, he married his child and I was done with him after that.. Dylan is just the icing on the cake. 

 
 
 
mocowgirl
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2.1.2  mocowgirl  replied to  Perrie Halpern R.A. @2.1.1    6 years ago
He played the father role in the house,

I agree.  Elvis Presley had the same mindset of "raising his wife" except that Priscilla is the only one that he actually married.  He just "played house" with the rest of them.

Of his many sexual conquests, the vast majority were no older than 15, which even in Elvis's time was incredibly illegal. Not that he cared—perhaps he himself was too naive to realize what he was doing. After all, this is a man who once asked the mother of a 14-year-old girl he liked if she could move to Graceland with him. As he reasoned, ""I just want to raise her…I want her there as my wife." No, nothing creepy about that at all!

Read More: http://www.grunge.com/11639/dark-truth-behind-elvis/?utm_campaign=clip

 
 
 
Perrie Halpern R.A.
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2.1.3  Perrie Halpern R.A.  replied to  mocowgirl @2.1.2    6 years ago

Oh yeah.. thought that was creepy a long time ago, when I found out how old she was when he first cast his eyes on her.. 

 
 
 
Bob Nelson
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2.1.4  seeder  Bob Nelson  replied to  Perrie Halpern R.A. @2.1.1    6 years ago

I really don't know. I think that's Stephens's point. We're quick to jump to conclusions.

A lot of ugly stories are coming to the surface, so we're prepared to accept another one... even if it is not at all the same.

 
 
 
Perrie Halpern R.A.
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2.1.5  Perrie Halpern R.A.  replied to  Bob Nelson @2.1.4    6 years ago

Bob, 

I realize that men are suddenly can be accused of sexual improprieties since the me too movement. But then again, I can give you a running list of women that I know personally, including myself, that had unwanted sexual advances.. so it is not such a unique thing to have men who are pigs out there. BTW, because of this sudden run to accuse, I am not a big fan of the movement, despite my own personal experiences.

 
 
 
Bob Nelson
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2.1.6  seeder  Bob Nelson  replied to  Perrie Halpern R.A. @2.1.5    6 years ago

Perrie,

Woody Allen's fate is not a big deal. He has had an enviable career, and done some work that will stand the test of time. So in a way, Allen isn't the subject of Stephens's article. If his career ends now, it's no big deal.

Stephens is asking aloud if there is a risk that in the current movement to name and shame,  we may become a mob. It's a good question.

 
 
 
Buzz of the Orient
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2.1.7  Buzz of the Orient  replied to  Perrie Halpern R.A. @2.1.1    6 years ago

It wasn't his child. That would be incest. I don't think he was charged with incest, was he?

 
 
 
Perrie Halpern R.A.
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2.1.9  Perrie Halpern R.A.  replied to  Buzz of the Orient @2.1.7    6 years ago

Buzz, 

My sister has an adopted daughter. If my brother in law did that to her, it would be incest. 

 
 
 
Buzz of the Orient
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2.1.11  Buzz of the Orient  replied to  Release The Kraken @2.1.10    6 years ago

I'm not defending Woody, but I'm a little confused about the facts - you said he raped his 7 year old adopted daughter and I thought I saw it was improper touching.  Doesn't rape mean penetration by a penis, i.e. sexual intercourse?  Sorry but I'm not up on American law, or as it was at the time.

 
 
 
Buzz of the Orient
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2.1.12  Buzz of the Orient  replied to  Perrie Halpern R.A. @2.1.9    6 years ago

I guess I'm confused about American Law. I thought that the definitions of incest required that there be sexual intercourse, and I thought that in Woody's improper adventures, sexual intercourse was not the complaint, rather it was some other improper act.

Maybe whatever he did was detestible, but perhaps it was neither rape nor incest which is what he is being accused of in the comments here.

 
 
 
Bob Nelson
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2.1.13  seeder  Bob Nelson  replied to  Perrie Halpern R.A. @2.1.5    6 years ago

Perrie,

You express the ambiguity of the situation pretty well. There are a lot of pigs.

There's a wide spectrum of behavior from boorish to predator, so that it is sometimes difficult to know just where a particular pig is situated. A boor deserves contempt, but not criminal charges. A predator deserves prison time.

Stephens is asking, "What amount of evidence is needed to define a person's place on the pig scale?"

 
 
 
sandy-2021492
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2.1.14  sandy-2021492  replied to  Buzz of the Orient @2.1.11    6 years ago

I believe it varies by state, but object or digital penetration without consent may also be defined as rape.

 
 
 
Perrie Halpern R.A.
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2.1.15  Perrie Halpern R.A.  replied to  Bob Nelson @2.1.13    6 years ago
There's a wide spectrum of behavior from boorish to predator, so that it is sometimes difficult to know just where a particular pig is situated. A boor deserves contempt, but not criminal charges. A predator deserves prison time.

You are correct.. there is a wide range of boorishness. Allen can only get contempt by NY law. The statue of limitation is done barring DNA evidence, which I am pretty sure doesn't exist. . Here is what we do know. He behaved disgustingly with Soon-Yi.  But to dismiss what Dylan says, is also wrong, even if we can't prove it to the legal standard.  

Stephens is asking, "What amount of evidence is needed to define a person's place on the pig scale?"

The man married the child that he was the father figure to. I don't care if Soon-Yi was OK with it. Allen was the adult in that picture, and so was the authority figure. Soon-Yi was groomed for this by Allen. The evidence are the sexualized pictures of Soon-Yi and Soon-Yi's own words. 

And his own words:

Woody Allen   says his 23-year relationship with  Soon-Yi Previn   worked because of their previous parent-child relationship.

“I’m 35 years older, and somehow, through no fault of mine or hers, the dynamic worked,” the 79-year-old director   told NPR in an interview published Wednesday . “I was paternal. She responded to someone who was paternal.”

“She deferred to me, and I was happy to give her an enormous amount of decision-making just as a gift and let her take charge of so many things,” he continued. “She flourished. It was just a good luck thing.”

 
 
 
Skrekk
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2.1.16  Skrekk  replied to  Perrie Halpern R.A. @2.1.15    6 years ago
The man married the child that he was the father figure to. I don't care if Soon-Yi was OK with it. Allen was the adult in that picture, and so was the authority figure. Soon-Yi was groomed for this by Allen. The evidence are the sexualized pictures of Soon-Yi and Soon-Yi's own words.

I don't think that's correct based on what I've read of it.   This article has a good summary:

“I am not Soon-Yi's father or stepfather,” he said definitively at the start of the interview. “I’ve never even lived with Mia. I've never in my entire life slept at Mia's apartment, and I never even used to go over there until my children came along seven years ago. I never had any family dinners over there. I was not a father to her adopted kids in any sense of the word.” Adding that Soon-Yi never treated him as a father figure and that he rarely spoke to her before the affair, Allen seemed to see few issues with their relationship. “There’s no downside to it,” he said. “The only thing unusual is that she's Mia's daughter. But she's an adopted daughter and a grown woman. I could have met her at a party or something.”

In her own interview with Time, Previn again defended their relationship, saying “I was not raped, molested or manipulated as Mia has hysterically charged, nor am I retarded or mentally slow as she would have you believe.

“To think that Woody was in any way a father or stepfather to me is laughable,” she continued. “My parents are Andre Previn and Mia, but obviously they're not even my real parents. I came to America when I was 7. I was never remotely close to Woody.”

Around the same time, Soon-Yi also released a comment about the relationship to Newsweek, imploring the public “let’s not get hysterical.”

“Please don't try and dramatize my relationship with Woody Allen,” she said in a statement to Newsweek. “He was never any kind of father figure to me. I never had any dealings with him. He rarely came to our apartment before his own children were born.”

Vehemently denying Mia Farrow’s allegations that Allen had molested the pair’s adopted daughter Dylan Farrow (another major scandal that was simultaneously engulfing the director), Previn continued, “I'm not a retarded little underage flower who was raped, molested and spoiled by some evil stepfather — not by a long shot. I'm a psychology major at college who fell for a man who happens to be the ex-boyfriend of Mia. I admit it's offbeat, but let's not get hysterical. The tragedy here is that, because of Mia's vindictiveness, the children must suffer. I will always have a feeling of love for her because of the opportunities she gave me, but it's hard to forgive much that followed.”

So not only did Allen start dating Previn when she was an adult (the nude pics were taken several years later), but he never acted as her father or was a father figure to her.    The only violation of social conventions was that he had an affair with the adult adopted daughter of the woman he had been seeing, and no state prohibits that in any way.   But it is a big unwritten taboo precisely because of that legal kinship between Farrow and Previn.

As far as Allen's paternal feelings towards Previn, I'm not sure but that seems to be what he feels in more recent interviews because of their 35-year difference in age & life experience.    I don't think he was talking about how he felt towards her when they started dating.   I can understand why he feels that way but I hope he understands the dangers paternalism can pose to a relationship, not for reasons of incest but for respecting one's spouse as an equal.

 
 
 
Buzz of the Orient
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2.1.17  Buzz of the Orient  replied to  Skrekk @2.1.16    6 years ago

I wonder if your comment would change the minds of those who are better led by rumour.

 
 
 
Skrekk
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2.1.18  Skrekk  replied to  Buzz of the Orient @2.1.17    6 years ago
I wonder if your comment would change the minds of those who are better led by rumour.

I doubt it, but I can't blame them given the awkward circumstances.

I wonder if the public reaction would have been different if Woody had dumped Mia for her younger sister?

 
 
 
luther28
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2.1.19  luther28  replied to  Bob Nelson @2.1    6 years ago

The hinky parts comes from the diddling about with a virtual child, this ain't Alabama. You may find it acceptable behavior, I do not.

We're just looking at it through a different lens.

 
 
 
Perrie Halpern R.A.
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4  Perrie Halpern R.A.    6 years ago

Bob,

The me too movement is about women who have been sexually accosted. It is not about children. Children are a whole different thing. 

When kids go before the court, their stories often change. The are confused and scared and in the case of two parents conflicted. In the 4 cases that I was involved with regarding child abuse, even in cases where the child had signs of physical abuse, it was a 50/50 chance that they would return to the home because of inconsistent testimony. It was one of the most shocking revelations to me as a teacher (who is mandated to report). The families involved were poor families and still, with crappy lawyers played the system. 

Now throw into the mix a guy like Woody Allen. Tons of money, loads of notoriety. Next throw in some reasonable doubt, like the wife is bitter, and case close. 

Now Dylan is the liar. It's not bad enough that Allen is of questionable morals.. she has to be dragged through the mud. Meanwhile Soon Yi even said her and Allen's relationship started when she was a minor.. 

The man is a pig and a liar. I stopped seeing his movies years ago... along with Mel. Thank goodness for one honest cop, otherwise Mel would have said it was a lie, too. 

 
 
 
Bob Nelson
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4.1  seeder  Bob Nelson  replied to  Perrie Halpern R.A. @4    6 years ago
Now Dylan is the liar. It's not bad enough that Allen is of questionable morals.. she has to be dragged through the mud.

I don't know. I wasn't there. It's obviously a... strange... family, all of them.

I think that's the point: we don't know. You're ready to hang Allen on the testimony of a girl whose story was examined very closely by Connecticut authorities... who decided not to pursue Allen.  You don't know the case as intimately as those authorities did... but you're entirely confident that your conclusion is wiser.

Allen has never been accused of molesting any other girl/woman. He is still married to Soon-Yi. nevertheless, it is certain that he's a pervert.

Whatever...

 
 
 
Perrie Halpern R.A.
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4.1.1  Perrie Halpern R.A.  replied to  Bob Nelson @4.1    6 years ago
I think that's the point: we don't know. You're ready to hang Allen on the testimony of a girl whose story was examined very closely by Connecticut authorities... who decided not to pursue Allen.  You don't know the case as intimately as those authorities did... but you're entirely confident that your conclusion is wiser.

Bob that was a long time ago in a far less enlightened time. That is why today, we have the MeToo movement. For years powerful Hollywood types got away with naughty if not evil things. The fact that Dylan said it as a child and now as an adult, does carry merit. And this is about a specific type of child molestation.. incest, and that is as old as mankind. 

nevertheless, it is certain that he's a pervert.

Based on the fact that he married a child he raised from the time she was 7, yeah. And that is why I believe Dylan. Incest only happens within the home.

Look, I loved Kevin Spacey and Dustin Hoffman, but now I am disgusted by them. The only one I forgive is Louis CK. Yes it was kinky and strange what he was into, but he asked those women first if it was OK to disrobe and masterbate and they said yes. He never touched them. All were adults and all they had to do was either say no, or leave the room. Instead they chose to not be adults about their own behavior, and they are another reason I am not on board with the NotMe movement. Sometimes we all have to be adults and responsible for our behavior.

 
 
 
Bob Nelson
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4.1.2  seeder  Bob Nelson  replied to  Perrie Halpern R.A. @4.1.1    6 years ago
Based on the fact that he married a child he raised from the time she was 7,

.. and she married him (tbere was no shotgun), and they're still married 25 years later. OK, it's... odd. For sure. But does that make it "wrong"?

Isn't it significant that no other woman has accused Allen of anything? All the other men who have been accused have had multiple accusers.

Presumption of guilt?

 
 
 
Perrie Halpern R.A.
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4.1.3  Perrie Halpern R.A.  replied to  Bob Nelson @4.1.2    6 years ago
and she married him (tbere was no shotgun), and they're still married 25 years later. OK, it's... odd. For sure. But does that make it "wrong"?

Yes, since he raised her since she was 7. Loads of people adopt 7 year olds and 99.99% don't marry them. When they do, it's called incest.

Isn't it significant that no other woman has accused Allen of anything? All the other men who have been accused have had multiple accusers.

First of all, it's not about adult women. It is about control when it's about incest. Look it up in the DSM. Second he was accused, by his other daughter Dylan. Btw.. Soon-Yi had said there was flirting and sex play well before her adulthood. 

Presumption of guilt?

I am not sitting in the courtroom. In fact, I would have to recuse myself. This is what I believe based on other monsters I have dealt with while being a teacher. 

 
 
 
Skrekk
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4.1.4  Skrekk  replied to  Perrie Halpern R.A. @4.1.3    6 years ago
Yes, since he raised her since she was 7. Loads of people adopt 7 year olds and 99.99% don't marry them. When they do, it's called incest.

Are we confusing Previn and the claims made by Dylan Farrow?    Allen didn't adopt Previn or raise her.

 
 
 
Bob Nelson
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4.2  seeder  Bob Nelson  replied to  Perrie Halpern R.A. @4    6 years ago

Bob,

The me too movement is about women who have been sexually accosted. It is not about children. Children are a whole different thing.

Yes.

Why are you telling me something I already know? How is this relevant to Woody Allen?

 
 
 
Perrie Halpern R.A.
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4.2.1  Perrie Halpern R.A.  replied to  Bob Nelson @4.2    6 years ago
The me too movement is about women who have been sexually accosted. It is not about children. Children are a whole different thing.

Yes.

Why are you telling me something I already know? How is this relevant to Woody Allen?

Because your article mentions it in this context. 

 
 
 
Bob Nelson
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4.2.2  seeder  Bob Nelson  replied to  Perrie Halpern R.A. @4.2.1    6 years ago
Why are you telling me something I already know? How is this relevant to Woody Allen?

Because your article mentions it in this context.

... and you thought I didn't understand, so you had to explain? Gee... thanks!    patience

 
 
 
Perrie Halpern R.A.
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4.2.3  Perrie Halpern R.A.  replied to  Bob Nelson @4.2.2    6 years ago

Bob that was not meant as an insult. I was only pointing out to you that I was on topic. 

 
 
 
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6      6 years ago

By definition Elvis was a hebephilia. Hebephilia is the strong, persistent sexual interest by adults in pubescent (early adolescent) children which is typically ages 11–14. It differs from pedophilia and from ephebophilia (the primary sexual interest in later adolescents, typically ages 15–19)

Pedophilia or paedophilia is a psychiatric disorder in which an adult or older adolescent experiences a primary or exclusive sexual attraction to prepubescent children.

The APA will eventually bend to progressives calling pedophilia a sexual orientation.

 
 
 
mocowgirl
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6.1  mocowgirl  replied to  @6    6 years ago
The APA will eventually bend to progressives calling pedophilia a sexual orientation.

I am a "progressive" and I am not calling for anyone to label pedophilia as acceptable in any manner.  That would like labeling rape as a sexual orientation.  

 
 
 
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6.1.1    replied to  mocowgirl @6.1    6 years ago

The APA dropped homosexuality and transgenderism from its list of mental disorders it's only a matter of time before Pedophilia becomes just a sexual orientation. When it does happen progressives will be agreeing with them. Those that don't agree will be called bigots.

 
 
 
Freefaller
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6.1.2  Freefaller  replied to  @6.1.1    6 years ago
it's only a matter of time before Pedophilia becomes just a sexual orientation

Well while everyone is entitled to their opinion, I would recommend against holding your breath waiting for this to happen

 
 
 
Skrekk
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6.1.4  Skrekk  replied to  @6.1.1    6 years ago
The APA dropped homosexuality and transgenderism from its list of mental disorders it's only a matter of time before Pedophilia becomes just a sexual orientation. When it does happen progressives will be agreeing with them. Those that don't agree will be called bigots.

Are you saying that people who hold animus against LGBT folks aren't bigots?   That's an obviously false claim which reveals a great deal about you, and it reveals your underlying anti-LGBT agenda when you made the utterly baseless and moronic claim that "The APA will eventually bend to progressives calling pedophilia a sexual orientation."

FYI, homosexuality was dropped from the DSM as a disorder because there was NEVER any credible science to treat it as a disorder - all there was the culturally pervasive anti-gay bias which you so clearly exhibit.    To a very large extent it's the same issue with being transgender and with gender dysphoria - as psychiatrists have learned more about the neurology behind gender identity and learned to drop their cultural biases against people outside gender norms it's helped them both understand the condition and provide better and more appropriate treatment for it.    Fortunately the APA no longer takes its cues from Christian superstitions or from your ilk.

 
 
 
Skrekk
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6.2  Skrekk  replied to  @6    6 years ago
The APA will eventually bend to progressives calling pedophilia a sexual orientation.

And you base that utterly moronic claim on what exactly?

 
 
 
Perrie Halpern R.A.
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6.2.1  Perrie Halpern R.A.  replied to  Skrekk @6.2    6 years ago

Gotta agree with that... I hate it when people make these outrageous claims based on nothing. 

 
 
 
Skrekk
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6.2.3  Skrekk  replied to    6 years ago

LOL.   You must be a bit gullible or think that other people are.

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No one is ever surprised that the right wing lies and is grossly misinformed, or that they peddle long-debunked memes peddled by hate groups like the American Family Association :

A news release sent Oct. 30 on behalf of the American Family Association mischaracterized the position of the American Psychological Association with respect to pedophilia. The American Psychological Association does not classify mental disorders or publish the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual, as the release incorrectly stated .

The American Psychological Association maintains that pedophilia is a mental disorder; that sex between adults and children is always wrong; and that acting on pedophilic impulses is and should be a criminal act. The American Psychological Association has worked for many years to prevent child sexual abuse and will continue to do so.

 
 
 
Skrekk
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6.2.5  Skrekk  replied to    6 years ago
You've got no room to talk about anyone else being gullible when you cite SNOPES. 

You sound upset that both the APA and Snopes debunked your moronic and false claims.

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Furthermore, when you claim an organization is a hate group because they disagree with your agenda, you simply further prove liberalism is a mental disorder which is incurable.

I'm not at all surprised that you think an anti-LGBT group isn't a hate group.

 
 
 
Sister Mary Agnes Ample Bottom
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6.2.7  Sister Mary Agnes Ample Bottom  replied to    6 years ago
You have no clue what I do and don't think, you simply assume and then spew bullshit

Most folks don't need to assume what you are thinking.  You wear your agenda like a big-ass hat that's glued to your head.

 
 
 
Skrekk
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6.2.8  Skrekk  replied to    6 years ago
You have no clue what I do and don't think

You mean apart from your defense of an anti-LGBT hate group and the false claims you spread about the APA?

You've always been pretty transparent in your animus against LGBT folks.

 
 
 
Sister Mary Agnes Ample Bottom
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6.2.11  Sister Mary Agnes Ample Bottom  replied to    6 years ago

Sorry, sugar-bush, but you have to be 18 to have an account here.  So please go away and stop annoying people.

Cute image, though.

 
 
 
Skrekk
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6.2.12  Skrekk  replied to    6 years ago
I made no false claims, I posted a link, if you have an issue with the content then take it up with the source.

Let's see.....first you posted a link which made false claims which I easily debunked, then you claimed an anti-LGBT hate group which spread those false claims wasn't a hate group.

At the very least it seems your agenda is the same as that hate group's agenda.    Are you a member of the AFA?

 
 
 
mocowgirl
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6.3  mocowgirl  replied to  @6    6 years ago
The APA will eventually bend to progressives calling pedophilia a sexual orientation.

Instead of "progressives", I suspect that it is pedophiles that are behind the movement to view pedophilia as being acceptable.

 
 
 
mocowgirl
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6.4  mocowgirl  replied to  @6    6 years ago
later adolescents, typically ages 15–19)

14 was Elvis "magic" age and might have been younger according to some people.

Elvis was a pedophile.

 
 
 
mocowgirl
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6.4.2  mocowgirl  replied to  Kathleen @6.4.1    6 years ago
I never knew Elvis was a Pedophile...

I only learned about this a few years ago.  I was thoroughly disgusted with how all of the people who knew protected Elvis instead of his victims.

Our country needs to protect children instead of pedophiles. 

 
 
 
mocowgirl
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6.4.4  mocowgirl  replied to  Kathleen @6.4.3    6 years ago
My daughter is 17 and I can't imagine her being married at 14. Sick.

Sick is correct.  However, when it comes to pedophiles, the goal is not marriage.  They want to have sex with children that they can control.  Elvis did not necessarily want to marry Priscilla.  It has been reported that Elvis' manager coerced Elvis to marry Priscilla.

 
 
 
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6.4.6  Skrekk  replied to  Kathleen @6.4.5    6 years ago
Some of these countries allow marriages to children as young as 6 or 7.

In theory  about half of US states have no lower age limit as long as a judge grants approval.

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Some US states like Texas, Tennessee and Floriduh continue to allow child marriages, particularly if the girl was raped by an adult:

Florida has come to media attention after reports of its lax child marriage regulations, and the high toleration of the practice. [22] In Florida, 16,400 children, some as young as 13, have been married since 2000, which is the second highest incidence of child marriage after Texas. [12]

The Florida Senate is seeking to pass a bill that would end child marriage in Florida, partly moved by the story of Sherry Johnson. Johnson was raped by a church deacon when she was 9, gave birth at 10 and was forced to marry her rapist at 11. Johnson said her church pressured her mother to consent to the marriage and a judge eventually approved it. [23]

 
 
 
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6.4.7  Skrekk  replied to  Kathleen @6.4.3    6 years ago
He was 24 and Priscilla was 14. That should have never been allowed.  My daughter is 17 and I can't imagine her being married at 14. Sick.

My understanding is that they first met and started dating when she was 14, but she married him a few weeks before she was 22 and didn't have intercourse before that.   Pretty creepy though for a 24 year old to be dating a 14 year old and to have her living with him by 17.

In her 1985 autobiography, Elvis and Me , Priscilla describes Presley as a very passionate man who was not overtly sexual towards her. According to her account, [21] the singer told her that they had to wait until they were married before having intercourse. He said, "I'm not saying we can't do other things. It's just the actual encounter. I want to save it." Priscilla says in her autobiography that she was a virgin and she and Elvis did not have sex until their wedding night. However, this claim is questioned by biographer Suzanne Finstad. [22]

 
 
 
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6.4.10  Skrekk  replied to  Kathleen @6.4.8    6 years ago
Whether they are married or not, I still think it is  unacceptable.

I agree, but it was perfectly legal at the time in the states and countries in question.

At least Elvis didn't try to rape her like Roy Moore did with one of his victims.

 
 
 
Skrekk
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6.4.11  Skrekk  replied to  Kathleen @6.4.9    6 years ago
So it's Republican red states right? Why don't you just spell it out.

Generally yes, especially in the bible-babble belt.   At least historically child marriage practices have been by far the worst in those states.

 
 
 
Skrekk
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6.4.14  Skrekk  replied to  Kathleen @6.4.12    6 years ago

Previn wasn't Allen's daughter in any sense at all - she was his girlfriend's daughter and they didn't start dating before she was an adult, nor did they have much interaction before then.    What Elvis did was quite different because there's no doubt Priscilla was 14 when they started dating.

I have 4 stepdaughters through my marriage and while I didn't adopt them I did help raise them.   They're all young adults now, quite beautiful and very smart.....but I can't imagine dating them because I see them as my children and I know they see me as one of their dads.   But legally I could do that despite how creepy it sounds.    Allen didn't have that father-daughter relationship with Previn (at least not according to them), nor was Previn biologically related to Farrow.    So at worst I think you can accuse Allen of being a cad and exercising poor judgement, but more power to them if they're both happy and it was consensual.    Given that Previn doesn't seem to take any shit from Allen it's hard to argue with their 25 year marriage, particularly given the high level of social condemnation of their relationship.

 
 
 
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6.4.16  JBB  replied to  Kathleen @6.4.15    6 years ago

Call me prejudiced but I have always had a thing for Mia Farrow's Mother Maureen O'Sullivan who played Jane in the original Johnny Weismuller Trazan movies, Tarzan and Jane and Tarzan and Boy. How dated does that make me? Here is a cover story from People Magazine from back in the day...

TOM GLIATTO
August 31, 1992 12:00 PM

“Sex alleviates tension. Love causes if.”—Woody Allen (1982)

THROUGH FOUR DECADES AS STANDup comic, movie star and director, Woody Allen has been called many things. Funny, of course. Brilliant. Neurotic. Charming. Intense. And, if you hated Interiors as much as the critics did, pretentious and derivative. Evil, though—that’s a new one.

But that was the word used last week as his personal life with Mia Farrow, 47, his wan leading lady off-screen and on for more than a dozen years, turned out to have very little of the winsome prettiness of the 13 movies they made together. “Evil and desperate” was how Farrow’s mother, veteran actress Maureen O’Sullivan, characterized Allen in a statement faxed to the media. And Mia’s sister Tisa called him “an evil, evil man.”

The bitterness of the Allen-Farrow denouement burst into public view on Aug. 13, when Allen, 56, filed suit in State Supreme Court in Manhattan for custody of his and Farrow’s son, Satchel, 4, and two children they adopted together, Moses, a 14-year-old Korean with cerebral palsy, and daughter Dylan, 7. “It has been tragic to watch what Mia has gone through,” said O’Sullivan when the suit was filed. “The truth of this story will soon be made public.”

Part of the larger story she referred to so darkly, it turns out, is that Allen has fallen head over heels for another of Farrow’s seven adopted children, 21-year-old Soon-Yi, a sophomore at Drew University in Madison, N.J. With photos of his long, weary face illustrating lurid headlines on the front pages of New York City’s tabloids, the normally reclusive Allen felt obliged to do the unthinkable: talk about his private life to the press. He confessed to the new relationship—which Farrow reportedly discovered seven months ago when she came across nude photos of Soon-Yi taken in Allen’s East Side duplex—with a statement that was an unabashed valentine. “Regarding my love for Soon-Yi: It’s real and happily all true. She’s a lovely, intelligent, sensitive woman who has and continues to turn my life around in a positive way.”

For Farrow, discovery of the affair was devastating, says her friend Maria Roach, 56, daughter of director Hal Roach and godmother to Farrow’s daughter Lark, 18. When she coincidentally called Mia shortly after the pictures of Soon-Yi had surfaced, “I thought someone had died,” says Roach. Then Farrow wrote her a letter full of heartbreak. My vision has been unclear,” the letter reads, “and I have spent more than a dozen years with a man who would destroy me and corrupt in my daughter, leading her into a betrayal of her mother and her principles, leaving her morally bankrupt with the bond between us demolished. I can think of no cruder way to lose a child or a lover.”

But Farrow and Allen have now given each other, and their children, additional searing lessons in cruelty, as the war between them has seemed to escalate almost daily. One source friendly to Allen described Farrow as “a very jealous and manipulative woman, very desperate.” Roach said that after Farrow uncovered the affair, the family ended up in psychotherapy for months. And, according to Roach, Allen first wanted Farrow to deny publicly that she knew of his relationship with Soon-Yi, promising that the affair would end and their movie collaborations could continue. Then he threatened that by the time the custody battle lands in court, on Aug. 25, “there would be nothing left of her standing.”

Farrow, for her part, signaled that she would defend herself aggressively by hiring celebrity attorney Alan Dershowitz, whose client list has included Leona Helmsley. Clans von Bülow and, currently, Mike Tyson. The Farrow camp also began saying that Soon-Yi may still be a teenager. She was adopted as a street child in Seoul, and there was little documentation of her origin. Thus, while she is officially 21, Soon-Yi could be several years younger. Dershowitz says Mia regards her as 19, “but Woody has made her 21 for his purposes.”

The most damaging aspect is that police in Connecticut (Farrow has a home in Bridgewater) are conducting an investigation of child abuse involving Allen and Dylan. A New York City television station reported that one of its correspondents had seen a videotape that shows a nervous and shaken Dylan and seemed to support allegations of abuse.

That disturbing issue arose, says Dershowitz, because “one, a baby-sitter made a comment to Mia. Second, Dylan herself told Mia about it. Third, there was a physical piece of evidence.” Farrow is always video-taping the children, Roach explains, and one day Dylan said something startling—”It was not something that was set up.” And, according to the Boston Herald, the abuse incident happened this past Aug. 4 in the attic of the Connecticut house. Mia’s son Moses told the Herald that Farrow burst into tears when Dylan told her. “I’m angry that he is even trying to get custody of us,” Moses said. “For him to do what he did hurts [Dylan] very much because she’s very emotional child.”

Woody’s response to the suggestion of abuse was an immediate, categorical and outraged denial. He charged, during an unprecedented press conference, that “this, my lawyers tell me, is a currently popular though heinous card played in all too many…child-custody fights.” And an Allen source claims that, contrary to Dershowilz’s account, Dylan’s physical exam turned up no physical evidence of abuse. Allen also claimed that Farrow’s attorneys had demanded a $7 million settlement not to pursue the allegations. Leaving the podium—he would take no questions—Allen delivered a mournful ad lib. “My one public appearance in years,” he said, “and all straight lines.”

Dershowitz denied that any settlement had been brought up. (Farrow refused alimony from her two husbands, Frank Sinatra and composer-conductor Andre Previn.)

Allen’s custody gambit was puzzling. Who would suggest that any child didn’t belong with Farrow, photographed time after time looking borderline dowdy as she blissfully cradled a baby or held a kid’s hand? “Mia’s really a terrific person—not a Betty Crocker kind of mom,” says Roach. “But she has a gift.” Allen himself has observed, “Mia has a talent for mothering the way some people have a green thumb for gardening or an ear for music or a talent for medicine.”

Farrow, who grew up in a family of seven, now has 11 children: four biologically her own (one of them—Satchel—by Allen, and three—twins Matthew and Sascha, 21, and Fletcher, 17—by Previn) and seven adopted. They are Daisy, 17, and Lark, who are Vietnamese; Soon-Yi; Moses; Dylan; and, in the past year, Tain, 12, who is blind, and Isaiah. 8 months, who is black. “Being a mother is Mia’s mission,” said sister Tisa.

Yet according to Roach, Allen has accused Farrow of being an unfit mother, partly because she lakes antidepressants prescribed by a psychiatrist. One source close to Allen describes the Farrow household as “chaotic,” with some of the kids sneaking out to party after their mother goes to bed. Moreover, says this source, there have been unpublicized problems in addition to the arrest of Lark and Daisy last summer for shoplifting lingerie from a mall in Danbury, Conn. Even as she pursues a “manic need” to adopt, says the source, “Mia doesn’t know what’s going on. She’s reclusive.”

Allen’s sister, Letty Aronson, 48, claims that Farrow is emotionally removed from her adopted daughters. Aronson remembers the first time she took her own daughter, Erika, to visit Mia after the birth of Satchel. “Afterward,” says Aronson, “my daughter kept talking about how the maid did this, the maid did that. I said, ‘What maid?’ She meant Lark.’ Says a source close to Allen: “We always joked that Lark would be the one to get out of the house and Write the Mommnie Dearest book.”

That source also claims that, furious over the affair, Farrow on separate occasions struck Soon-Yi with a chair, shredded her clothes and persuaded the other children not to talk to her. “Not true,” says Dershowitz about the violence, although he says that Farrow admits to “a gentle, motherly slap.” (Soon-Yi no longer lives in her mother’s three-bedroom home on Central Park West and, according to a source, is no longer welcome there; most of the older children have already moved out to be on their own.)

The case with Allen is just the opposite, say supporters, who maintain that—although he has never had an image that could be called paternal—he is indeed close to the three children named in his custody suit and wants to extricate them from a chaotic home. “His whole life turned around when Dylan entered his life and when Satchel was born,” says a colleague. “And then he got very, very close to Moses as well.”

Allen has stressed that he had brought the custody case only reluctantly. “The last thing I wanted to do was go to court,” he said. “I have tried agonizingly to work out the details privately.” As for his passion for Soon-Yi, which seems certain to cloud his chances of obtaining custody of the other children, it began on his 56th birthday, last Dec. 1. That, in any event, is the date that Dershowitz cites as the first time that Allen and Soon-Yi had sex. (“How do we know that?” Dershowitz asks. “Soon-Yi eventually had a long talk with her mother about it.”) Two weeks later, he adds, Allen filed to adopt Dylan and Moses, “never telling the court that he was sleeping with their sister and never telling Mia. I think he has perpetrated a fraud—on the court and Mia and die children themselves.”

The betrayal, in Farrow’s eyes, was all the more painful because of the lengths she had gone to to adopt Soon-Yi in 1977. Federal law then prevented U.S. families from adopting more than two foreign children. Farrow already had Lark and Daisy, but she was finally able to bring Soon-Yi after launching an effort lobbying Congress to repeal the law. “To me, that’s the ultimate irony,” says Farrow’s biographer, Sam Rubin. “A child that she went to extreme lengths to bring to the United States ultimately turns out to be the child who breaks her heart.”

Author Rubin finds the affair between Allen and Soon-Yi bizarre. “[Allen] made no effort to distinguish between [now and] all those intervening years when he was actively involved in raising her,” says the writer. “And he would have known her from approximately the time she was 10.” Observes a source close to Allen: “I’m sure Woody had reservations, but you don’t choose the people you fall in love with.” Besides, says the source, before his kids Dylan, Moses and Satchel were added to the family, he avoided being involved with Mia’s brood. He wasn’t around surrogate-parenting Soon-Yi and the others, says the source. Previn remained their father figure.

Anyone hoping for a last look at Allen and Farrow together will have to be content with the release next month of Woody’s new picture, Husbands and Wives, which, ironically, is about a college professor (Allen) who falls in love with a student played by Juliette Lewis. Farrow plays Allen’s Life.

The couple never pretended to try to live up to that movie title. They always maintained separate residences. Her apartment is half a mile across Central Park from his East Side duplex. “I like the arrangement,” Farrow said two years ago. “We have a good life.” They shared the moviemaking, of course, plus shepherding the kids around New York, occasional weekends at her country home (although Allen hales the country and often chose to stay in town) and suppers at his favorite hangout, Elaine’s. (Mia was always willing to say hello to people who would stop by their table there; Woody would stare at his feet.)

Both had been married twice already—Farrow to Sinatra and Previn; Allen to Harlene Rosen, a high school sweetheart he married at 19 (and later referred to in his comedy act as Quasimodo until she sued and required him to stop), and to actress Louise Lasser (Mary Hartrnan, Mary Hartman). Allen also had a long-running affair with Diane Keaton, his leading lady in the ’70s and the inspiration for Annie Hall .

Romance began in 1979, when Michael Caine brought Farrow over to Allen’s table at celebrity-crowded Elaine’s. Mutual attraction was quietly nudged into love during a series of lunches and dinners arranged by Allen’s secretary. But Farrow already had something of a crush, she said, since she had been struck by Allen’s photo on the cover of The New York Times Magazine that same year. “He had such an interesting face,” she said. Allen had a bit more to say about Farrow’s translucent skin and delicate cheekbones. “It’s impossible,” he said, “to photograph her when Mia is not being beautiful.”

Allen, a highly disciplined workaholic, managed to dovetail his rigorous moviemaking schedule with Farrow’s overflowing domestic scene. Since the birth of his son, he would get up at 5 A.M. to be at Farrow’s place when Satchel, Dylan and Moses awoke; by 10, he would be at work directing his latest movie and producing the next. At night he would return to her place to see the kids to bed, then head out with her for a bite to eat. (And, of course, he managed to maintain his strict regimen of psychotherapy, which goes back 25 years.) “She does all the work,” he joked, “and I skim off the cream, since I only see the kids at their best.”

He always seemed especially close to Dylan, says a friend who has regularly watched them during Allen’s Monday-night jazz gigs at Michael’s Pub in Manhattan, where he has played clarinet for 21 years. “Woody really adores her,” he says. “She would sit on his lap while he was playing, many times,” says the friend. “When they adopted Dylan, I noticed that he started to wear a tie, and I said, ‘What’s going on? You never wear a tie.’ And he said, ‘Well, Dylan likes to play with it, so I wear a lie.’ ”

Last Monday, as usual, Allen played at Michael’s. He stepped onstage and removed his trademark fishing hat just as the sextet’s gig was beginning. When not playing, he sat with his hand resting on his chin, like Rodin’s Thinker.

While Allen was at Michael’s, Farrow was sequestered at Frog follow, her Connecticut hideaway, reportedly too distraught to eat. She still loves Soon-Yi, says Maureen O’Sullivan: “A mother always loves her child.” Mia was to have starred in Allen’s next film, Manhattan Murder Mystery , but has since been fired. He has made it quite clear that he no longer considers Farrow his leading lady. “In the end,” he told reporters, “the one thing I have been guilty of is falling in love with Mia Farrow’s adult daughter at the end of our years together.”

 
 
 
sandy-2021492
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6.4.17  sandy-2021492  replied to  Kathleen @6.4.15    6 years ago

He wasn't Soon-Yi's father, adoptive or otherwise.

But I don't see how he could have avoided being seen as a father figure.  It's still emotional incest, IMO.

 
 
 
Skrekk
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6.4.18  Skrekk  replied to  Kathleen @6.4.15    6 years ago
He was a father to her first and I just think that is twisted

As both Allen and Previn have stated, he was not a father to her and they had very little interaction.    You're writing something into their relationship which never existed - he was just the guy who dated the woman who adopted her.

 
 
 
Skrekk
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6.4.19  Skrekk  replied to  sandy-2021492 @6.4.17    6 years ago
But I don't see how he could have avoided being seen as a father figure.  It's still emotional incest, IMO.

I can only go by what Allen and Previn have said and they both say he had very little interaction with Farrow's kids.    And Previn says her only dad is Andre Previn.

Of course that doesn't make it any less awkward, creepy or unusual.

 
 
 
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6.4.20  Perrie Halpern R.A.  replied to  Skrekk @6.4.19    6 years ago
I can only go by what Allen and Previn have said and they both say he had very little interaction with Farrow's kids.    And Previn says her only dad is Andre Previn.

Skrekk, then the girl is brainwashed. Here is Soon-Yi as a girl on an outing as a family. 

Allen was stepfather to Farrow's children (here in 1986) until 1992, when he and Soon-Yi (right) got together

Allen was stepfather to Farrow's children (here in 1986) until 1992, when he and Soon-Yi (right) got together



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Skrekk
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6.4.22  Skrekk  replied to  Perrie Halpern R.A. @6.4.20    6 years ago
Here is Soon-Yi as a girl on an outing as a family.

So Allen once went somewhere with Farrow and her kids.    What does that make Andre Previn?

 
 
 
sandy-2021492
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6.4.25  sandy-2021492  replied to  Kathleen @6.4.23    6 years ago
I still think it is too weird.

I agree completely.

 
 
 
Skrekk
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6.4.26  Skrekk  replied to  Kathleen @6.4.24    6 years ago
Would you do what he did?  If not, tell me why...

I've already expressed my views about that to you, so I'm not sure why you're asking again.

But I'll ask you a question - let's say you date a guy for a while and the relationship comes to an end.   Which members of his immediate and extended family are you not allowed to date and why?

 
 
 
Skrekk
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6.4.28  Skrekk  replied to  Kathleen @6.4.27    6 years ago

No, I'm not defending their relationship so much as asking what's taboo about it given that it's perfectly legal.   Is it that there's a legal kinship relationship between Previn and Farrow?    Isn't that similar to a guy who drops his GF because he gets along with her younger sister better (or gasp.....her mother)?    What if the new object of affection has no legal or biological kinship to the old GF but was her best friend?    Or even worse, what if the guy realizes he likes his GF's brother more?    Is it the 35 year age difference?    If so why don't we always condemn such "March-November" even if it works well for the couple?

Is it your presumption that there was a parental relationship between Allen and Previn despite their denials that there ever was one?    Does it matter that Previn was adopted and isn't biologically related to Farrow?

I'm not asking you to discard the creepy feeling you've got about their relationship, just to inspect the underlying issue.

 
 
 
pat wilson
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8  pat wilson    6 years ago

Nor have we learned anything else about Allen

Other than he took nude photos of his adopted daughter

 
 
 
Sister Mary Agnes Ample Bottom
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8.1  Sister Mary Agnes Ample Bottom  replied to  pat wilson @8    6 years ago
Other than he took nude photos of his adopted daughter

Yep.  He began his...relationship...with Soon-yi while she was a teen in the 80's.  Although he and Mia Farrow had been, and were still, in a long term relationship, they kept their separate residences, but usually resided together at Mia's because of the children.  Mia had no idea what had been going on until she found the nude photos several years later.  I can't even imagine what went through her mind.  I still remember Woody Allen's public statement which said, in part, "It started as a fling, but developed into something more..."  

My bottom line is that it doesn't matter how one looks at it, Woody Allen was a father-figure to this girl, yet had no problem molesting her while Mia Farrow was giving birth to their son in 1987.  He kept his dirty deeds a secret for years, but couldn't very well deny it after Mia found the polaroids.  He later said in an interview that he subconsciously wanted Mia to find the photos.  Even more disgusting was this statement he made in 2015:  

'She (Soon-Yi) enjoyed being introduced to many, many things that I knew from experience, and I enjoyed showing her those things.'

In that same interview, he said, "I was paternal.  She (Soon-Yi) responded to someone paternal."

I'm sorry, but Woody Allen is long overdue an ass-kickin'.

  

 
 
 
igknorantzrulz
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8.1.1  igknorantzrulz  replied to  Sister Mary Agnes Ample Bottom @8.1    6 years ago

Gettem sister

 
 
 
Rex Block
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9  Rex Block    6 years ago

In the name of all decency this thread should be closed.

 
 
 
mocowgirl
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9.1  mocowgirl  replied to  Rex Block @9    6 years ago
In the name of all decency this thread should be closed.

Why shouldn't we discuss child predators and every other topic relating to sexual abuse of anyone, anywhere and at any age?

 
 
 
sandy-2021492
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9.1.1  sandy-2021492  replied to  mocowgirl @9.1    6 years ago

Exactly.  This is what victims of sexual abuse have to contend with - a man who has already admitted to one "affair" with an underage girl who saw him as a father figure is still given more credibility than his other victims.

And we wonder why victims don't speak out.  This is why.  They aren't believed.  The abuse is minimalized.  Normalized.  They are dragged over the coals themselves.  They are re-victimized, but the second time, it's for all to see.

 
 
 
mocowgirl
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9.1.2  mocowgirl  replied to  sandy-2021492 @9.1.1    6 years ago
And we wonder why victims don't speak out.  This is why.

Agreed.  If there is one topic that must be discussed - it is sexual exploitation of women and children.

Sexual predators are in positions of power throughout our nation - including in our legal and legislative system.  Of course, the victims must be silenced for the sexual predators to stay out of prison.  The sexual predators in Hollywood have been only too happy to oblige by painting women as sexual objects who just say "no" until a man stalks them long enough to wear them down to have sex.

This system has worked very well for the sexual predators until this past year when enough victims had the courage to speak out in numbers that were impossible to ignore.

The sexual predators are still in our legal and legislative system and fighting back by trying to undermine the victims. 

It is no different than the Roman Catholic Pope justifying priests raping children.

 
 
 
mocowgirl
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9.1.3  mocowgirl  replied to  mocowgirl @9.1.2    6 years ago
The sexual predators in Hollywood have been only too happy to oblige by painting women as sexual objects who just say "no" until a man stalks them long enough to wear them down to have sex.

I have two articles about this - first is serious...

The narrative of slowly wearing someone down over time, be it through stalking or just being friendly and always around, is one that is also inexplicably held up as romantic sometimes.

“The whole ‘nice guy’ trope is a similar thing [to stalking],” Lippman says. “It's like, ‘Oh, if you put in the time, you’re entitled to her.’ What she might want in the situation is really beside the point. Because really she does want you, she just hasn't realized it yet.”

The fact that movies portray these behaviors as romantic doesn’t mean women will fall in love with the first guy who follows them home. It’s more likely to manifest in subtler ways: “Maybe you'd be slightly more likely to think, ‘Oh, he showed up at my workplace with flowers, when I told him I wasn't interested already. I’m probably just overreacting; I’m sure he was just trying to be nice,’” Lippman says.

In another study Lippman did, both men and women who endorsed stalking myths were more likely to report that they’d been the perpetrators of an “unwanted pursuit.” Women—but not men—who endorsed those myths were also more likely to report being the target of such a pursuit. Generally, women are far more likely than men to be stalked (one in six women and one in 19 men experience stalking that makes them “very fearful” at some point in their lives,   according to the National Center for Victims of Crime ), and men are more likely than women to be stalkers (according to a   national survey in 1998 , 87 percent of stalkers were male).

 
 
 
mocowgirl
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9.1.4  mocowgirl  replied to  mocowgirl @9.1.3    6 years ago
I have two articles about this

second is "The Onion"....

TORRANCE, CA—Denny Marzano, a 28-year-old Torrance man, was arrested Monday for engaging in the type of behavior found in romantic comedies.

Marzano was taken into custody after violating a restraining order filed against him by Kellie Hamilton, 25, an attractive, unmarried kindergarten teacher who is new to the L.A. area. According to Hamilton, Marzano has stalked her for the past two months, spying on her, tapping her phone, serenading her with The Carpenters' "Close To You" at her place of employment, and tricking her into boarding Caribbean-bound jets.

Hamilton made the call to police at approximately 7:30 p.m., when she discovered that the bearded cable repairman she had let into her apartment was actually Marzano in disguise.

"Thank God he's in custody, and this nightmarish ordeal is finally over," said Hamilton, a single mother struggling to raise an adorable, towheaded boy all alone in the big city. "I repeatedly told him I wasn't interested, but he just kept resorting to crazier and crazier schemes to make me fall in love with him."

Marzano, who broke his leg last week falling off a ladder leaning against Hamilton's second-story bedroom window, said he was "extremely surprised" that his plan to woo Hamilton had failed.

"She was supposed to hate me at first but gradually be won over by my incredible persistence, telling me that no one has ever gone to such wild lengths to win her love," Marzano said. "But for some reason, her irritation never turned to affection."

 
 
 
igknorantzrulz
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9.2  igknorantzrulz  replied to  Rex Block @9    6 years ago
In the name of all decency this thread should be closed

Rex, people NEED to NOT shove this under the rug.

It should make people uncomfortable, but that doesn't men it shouldn't be discussed, cause if it isn't, it will continue.

 
 
 
Skrekk
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9.2.1  Skrekk  replied to  igknorantzrulz @9.2    6 years ago

That's why pedophile priests were so good at it because everyone wanted to cover it up, including sometimes even the victims of rape or molestation.   It's just not talked about in polite company.

 
 

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