The Need For A Politics Of Civility
There was a time, not that many years ago that we, as Americans, could agree to disagree. In the 1960s, I was fortunate enough to be elected the New York State chairman of the youth division of the Liberal Party. At the same time, the Young Conservatives were headed by William Buckley, a brilliant man who was more than double my age.
Bill and I went through many debates during the mid to late 60s. During most of the early debates, Bill beat me so badly that I thought I never would gain any recognition for the positions I held. What was most interesting through this period of time, was that this giant of the right, the intellectual foundation of the American conservative movement, would always meet with me after a debate for coffee and a piece of pie. We would dissect the debate and go over why he beat me. He was teaching me how to prepare for this great mind. We became friends, or mentor and mentee, if you will.
We continued to debate and, lo and behold, the debates became more and more competitive. There were issues that I actually emerged the winner. There was never going to be parity between us, but there was always going to be respect.
Bill Buckley and I hardly ever agreed on any issue. He held views that were as far right on the political spectrum that was acceptable in the 1960s and I was about as far left on the mainstream political spectrum.
We had one belief, however, that we both shared. Our nation is primarily a centrist nation. We move a little to the right and a little to the left on what we saw as a national pendulum. Those of us who were on the periphery of the mainstream political spectrum had two roles in American politics. The first was always to attempt to move the American voter toward either the right or the left of center. The way to do that was with facts and the healthy debate over those facts. The second role was to insure that the system did not pervert itself in such a way that either of us were looked upon as a centrist. That would mean that our democracy had failed and extremism ruled. It would also mean that we had lost the ability to be civil.
We appear to have failed in the second role. We are a country that is making extremism a virtue and governance an exercise in hatred. We are involved in a tit for tat battle for the minds and hearts of a center that is shrinking. There is no civility in dialogue, no willingness to see the other side's viewpoint, no attempt to find the civil middle. We call each other Nazis, Communists, Fascists, Socialists and then we get into the deeper and darker expletives that guarantee hatred between the sides.
We need a return to the days when the left and right could sit down and craft policies that may not satisfy everyone but is good for all. Politics has to become less of a game of winner take all and more of one of "the rule of the majority" but the absolute protection "of the rights and needs of the minority". It starts with all of us....left, right, and center. It has to spread to every person we all know, and then get the ball rolling to everyone they know. We are fighting for our American Dream. Let's not make it an American nightmare.
No doubt you would prefer that as it resulted in the country drifting to the left. We need to stand firm if we are going to take our country back. We learned from the mistakes in the past and I prefer the current approach. Winner take all, no more participation awards.
Let me guess, you complained that the dems were dividing the country too? Yep.
William Buckley said in 1955:
Today, those who call themselves conservatives, and especially the Trump sycophants, yell Stop and GO BACK. The insist that we revert to a 'Father Knows Best' time that is long gone.
I can remember watching Buckley on Firing Line and respect his mind though not his beliefs, especially his thoughts on HIV/AIDS.
And you demonstrate the left side of the problem. This site is a microcosm of the overall political world in the U.S. You cannot simply listen to someone who has an opinion different than yours, becuase you have your fingers in your ears shouting, we are right because we are on the left. The problem is, that you assume that everyone and everything on the left is the same message as President Trump, which reflects shallow, one dimensional thinking on the part of the left.
Have you noticed that Republicans are not in lock step with the President? And yet, folks on the left continue to, wrongly, lump everyone together as having one message.
I find it interesting that you immediately go for a personal comment.
I'm pretty sure that there are a couple of conservative here that WISH I didn't READ their comments very carefully. They would get away with a whole lot more BS around here.
Could you state that cogently please?
Why yes, YES I have. I have quite a few friends who are Reagan Republicans. Some voted for Trump, some didn't. I also have a couple of hard core Trump sycophants in my family. Though I post decidedly liberal stuff on my Facebook feed and they tout Trump, we haven't unfriended each other, we agree to disagree. In fact, I'm going up to Wisconsin in a month to visit them and see their new horses.
I note that you just lumped 'folks on the left' as having one message.
Buckley is timeless. Even when I disagreed with him, I could see the validity in his points, since he took the time to think them out.. instead of leading with his mouth.
There are exceptions:
Thank you for giving me a venue for a Krauthammer meme I have been saving.
Pretty tough to be civil today when you have a POTUS that literally attacks everyone he doesn't agree with...which is pretty much everyone.
Example: Harley Davidson. They were all for trump, but after the tariffs, and realizing that they would lose 100 MILLION a year as a result, they are moving their production to Europe and trump immediately attacked them for it. Civil? Nope.
Not an example.
But you used Snopes...the conservatives won't believe you
Neither will the centrists, liberals, libertarians, etc. if it doesn't fit their political agenda of smearing their opponents with innuendo, propaganda and outrageous lies.
I believe you because I think Snopes does a very good job at debunking things
Me, too. But I did not rely just on Snopes for that information. I usually check out several sources before I post anything. In this case, I just debunked the Harley Davidson propaganda yesterday using a different source.
The reality is that Harley sales have tanked the same as other motorcycle manufacturers. The motorcycle enthusiasts have largely aged out of the market into wheelchairs, nursing homes, etc.
The world's population is moving to cities where there is public transportation, horrendous traffic, limited parking available and probably a host of other reasons why vehicle ownership is best to be avoided if possible.
Let's look at trends in the US. The article is from 2016, but I am just almost kinda sorta positive that Donald Trump is to blame. LOL!
I don't know what millenials they're surveying but the ones where I live can't wait to get a car.
But I would think that people who live in cities might want to buy things like scooters which are easy to store and manuever. Also, I think they may have surveyed people who live in larger cities like LA, NY or Chicago because you need some kind of transportation if you live in Little Rock. Southern cities are slow to move away from the car culture
Definitely. In rural areas, personal transportation is a necessity. However, my husband's twin grandsons were forced by their mother to get a driver's license when they were almost 18. One of them did 4 years in the Marine Corps and returned home to sit on the couch. The other one has never left home or held a job as far as I know.
I will note that my husband and I would have likely been killed in a head on collision Monday afternoon if I hadn't been lucky enough to have enough shoulder to drive on when an old Chevy Suburban came around a curve in my lane.
That would require us to agree to agree on facts. We now live in a nation were facts no longer matter, where 'alternative facts' are accepted part of the narrative. IMHO, it is impossible to craft policies when we can't agree on the facts behind the issues.
Our 'leaders' lie to us night and day for their own personal aggrandizement and desperate desire to keep the power they yield. It's gotten exponentially worse in the era of Trump. When some one like Corker, who not that long ago was a GOP hero, walk away in disgust, we're in trouble. I felt it coming when the GOP primaried Sen. Lugar with a right wing bible thumping nut case, who WON.
Thank you for making an attempt to bridge the political parties. I wish I could adopt your optimism or care enough to make a similar attempt. I believe the country needs to be destroyed. We've had a pretty good run and now it is time for the USA to fall.
That’s really sad. Who would you prefer to occupy us?
Lol no one, just turn it into a radioactive, polluted, uninhabitable land from coast to coast (just kidding I hope for nothing of the sort)
ya see doc... the days you are talking about? looked like this
when the left gets back there.... we can talk..
until then? no compromises will be available.
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Well hell, that means we can talk right now.
The 'left' has no issue with 'strengthening the border' and it's been the GOP who refused to MANDATE e-verify and put TEETH into prosecuting employers that hire 'illegals'.
bs.
illegals and dreamers are just a political football for todays left.
in other words.
I get caught accepting y'all at your word all the time. My bad.
then try reading all the words in the context written or implied
I was talking about the dems who can actually sign laws ( not you )
me and you talking about this subject changes nothing at the border or in DC
if you thought I meant me and you should talk? LOL too damn funny.
but perhaps I was not clear enough.
try this:
when maxine and pelosi talk like clinton did in the video? and pelsi stops supporting ms13?
that's when "politicians can talk across the aisle.
cheers
So you want to talk about someone that DOES NOT EXIST on the Federal level?
Is that your standard for participating in a discussion here on NT?
You said 'we' and presuming that meant NT members can hardly be considered a stretch.
How about Trump, Ryan, Scalise, McConnell and Gohmert? How do you want them to talk?
That can't be taken seriously by any thinking person. Try harder.
cheers
that is another basket of fish...
the GOP and DEMS have both been selling out this country for about 60yrs
each playing their part right on que.
if one has been watching long enough they have seen without doubt every president continue the policy of the last president REGARDLESS of campaign promises to do otherwise
and then we elected trump/ he is putting that 60yrs of BS from both parties far behind us.
it will take more than one election to drain the swamp of critters left and right but in the end, the only ones on either side left standing will be the one who put our country first and keep their promise to do so after they get elected.
inside the next decade...
GOP will flush the never trumpers / globalists
DNC will flush the progressives / globalists
why? we took our country back and we will be keeping it.
this is what taking our country back looks like... perhaps messy.. but highly effective and better than a military coup any day of the week
cheers:)
The 2013 “Border Security, Economic Opportunity, and Immigration Modernization Act” passed with 16 GOP Senate votes. The bill funded costs for an E-verify MANDATE within 5 years.
Doing the math, that would be NOW.
The Speaker of the House, John Boehner REFUSED to bring the bill to the floor for a vote AND failed to submit a House version of the bill. In fact NO action on immigration of any kind happened in the 2013 House whatsoever. In short, the House GOP didn't even TRY.
So the blame for the failure to pass Immigration reform in 2013 is squarely on the Speakers shoulders, just as it is today, for totally different reasons.
A couple of great commentaries on the current issue of civility:
It is rare that real change and progress ever comes without episodes of "incivility". More often than not, it requires true moral outrage over the lives of people or oppression or poverty.
Whether it was the creating of America leaving the oppression of England, the fight against slavery and the Civil War, the fight for equality and the right to vote for women and the suffragettes, the fight for equality for blacks to attend school, ride a bus, or eat at a lunch counter.
The fight against the Vietnam War, the sexual revolution, the fight for equal pay regardless of gender, the fight for equality for women to choose, the fight for our Voting Rights, nothing ever comes about without some events calling attention to the dire plight of others.
The biggest march in history was the Womens March after Trump was elected and there is a rising up of the people the same way we saw in all the struggles of the past.
We cannot allow a minority of white voters who only vote GOP to turn back the clock on all the hard won progress of the last hundred years. Trump did not actually win, he actually lost by 3 million votes and the POPULAR vote actually counts even if he is constantly lying about it.
The American people did not want Trump, and they are telling everyone now loud an clear they were not heard at the polls and the outrageous destruction of American equality and fairness is being destroyed by a man who wants to be king.
America would be better off with a benevolent king instead of a malevolent king wannabe.
In the short term they might cause some damage, but in the long run those bigoted white conservatives will always lose.
What is currently happening is that we have politicians who have come to realize that the extreme on each side will form an unmovable base as long as the position of the candidate is as extreme as they are. We are therefore seeing the proliferation of extreme candidates on both the right and the left. What is missing from our dialogue is the view of those in the middle. We act as if the nation has only red meat conservatives and left wing liberals. That is because it is all we see and hear. That middle is still out there and probably still is the single largest voting bloc. In 2016, they moved right, for whatever reason. The result was President Trump and a republican victory across the board. They may move in the opposite direction in 2018 or 2020. The pendulum swings. The locations of power shift. We might see this upcoming battlefield fought in the suburbs of this company. No matter how far right we might be now, there will be a time where we move back to the left. There will be a time where civility "trumps" incivility.
Nobody takes back the country permanently, they just lease it for a limited period of time.
The pendulum does swing both ways but in the long run the base of the pendulum shifts to the left across the table as society evolves, otherwise southern conservative whites would still own black slaves and the entire country would still have coverture laws and permit marital rape.
Civility in politics is important, but even this thread a paen to civility is full of straw men and insults. I'm all for civility yin politics, but it's never really existed.
What is a problem is when it carries over into everyday life. When restaurateur declares jihad on a customer eating privately with her family and follows her family around the street organizing protests against her very presence because of her politics we've gone too far. Civil society requires a line a between the public and private and when that line is obliterated, violence results. Democrats and Republicans need to be be able to interact and converse about all those little things that make up our lives without it being about what "team" you are on. Our country, any functioning democracy, requires that.
Round of applause for that comment. That's how governing is done....via talking and compromise. Both sides should consider the middle before opening their mouths.
Translation: I am all for civility in politics but am incapable of participating.
You should read a history book. It might help you keep up.
I've already put my knowledge of history up against yours with quite a bit of success.. If you'd like to revisit that or any other debate on the issue, please proceed.
Son, if you think American politics haven't been marked by incivility historically, I [deleted]
First of all, I am NOT your son. Use my NT name when addressing me.
Secondly, I have not pursued the position that 'politics haven't been marked by incivility historically', refrain from insinuating that I have.
Judging from our prior discussions, there is no evidence to support your claim.
I recommend the Federalist papers. Reading them in their entirely, should make it obvious what was predicted by the founders. What wasn't predicted was the wholesale abdication of Constitutional obligations by elected officials and the acquiescence to mediocracy that exists today.
Nor did they foresee that the system they devised could be so flawed:
What Hamilton insisted was a 'moral certainty' has been utterly undermined.
Very true and it's a real problem.
It's the era of clickbait. You can't get someone to go to an article without a ridiculous headline.... and now politicians rule their bases up with ridiculous claims like "THEY ARE NAZIS/COMMUNISTS".... when you say extreme things to get the votes it polarizes the sides to the same extreme.
We treat compromise like it's a dirty whore
What compromises do you have in mind? I am really interested.
Now I have to think.
I think we can compromise on health care in this country. I think we can find a compromise on some form of universal health care along with actual health care price reform. Universal health care coverage is no good without price controls.
Tax reform. Real tax reform. Throw the working class something besides a bone. Start with the cap on social security taxation. Get rid of it.
I should have asked you to start first since you are way more informed than I am.
You're doing great.
Those are definitely two great examples of things that our elected representatives needs to work on for the benefit of the citizens of the US.
There are other things where there is no compromise like equal rights and separation of church and state.
The US just ranked 10th in a ranking of the 10 Most Dangerous Countries in the World for Women because of the ongoing tradition of abusing women in the US that has been in place long before I was born in the 1950s.
Thanks. That means a lot coming from you.
I think there is some compromise to be done on immigration reform but that's one I have to think on
I have thought on it for years.
I am not in favor of another amnesty and chain migration has to end period.
Employers should have to use E-verify. Fines for employing people who are not authorized to work in the US should begin in the $10,000 range.
US citizens who want to help people in other countries should work to improve conditions in other countries. There is nothing feasible about moving all of the world's impoverished people to the US. Besides the fact that women are not necessarily safer in the US than they were in their home country unless they are from the Middle East.
I do think something needs to be done for those people who came to the US as young children and know no other life. I wouldn't want to be deported to Germany after living here for 20 some years and I don't speak the language.
Don't tell anybody this, but I do agree with trump on a merit program and chain migration.
How about Tech firms, that hire a certain number of H1B visas, should have to set up and FUND STEM hubs to train US citizens and legal residents to fill those jobs? H1B visas last 6 years, which should give them PLENTY of time to train up all the US employees they need. That is over a quarter of a million high paying jobs filled by Americans that are now filled with H1B visa holders.
As for 'amnesty', I can't help but wonder how much MORE likely those who had a shot at citizenship would be to follow the law and invest in this country.
Immigrants do have more than a "shot" of citizenship when they apply and are allowed to immigrate legally.
The illegal immigrants have already shown that they are more interested in their own economic interests regardless of US immigration law. I have sincere doubts that self-interest won't be the major consideration in the majority of their other decisions.
Why was this allowed in the first place?
Who authorized it and who did it benefit?
I have read that H1B visa holders have been mistreated in the US by their tech employers.
I have worked for tyrants who seemed frustrated that there were laws and rules on how employees should be treated in the US. I can only imagine how happy they would have been if they had had minions who would put up with abuse rather than risk being deporting.
I was in grade school in the mid 60's when my grandfather was FINALLY naturalized, even though he had been here since 1937 and married to an American citizen with 4 American children.
Making people that have lived and working here for decades without breaking the law LEAVE and apply from 'their' country is ridiculous.
Your reply is interesting because I didn't say anything about 'economic interests'.
That's my point, following the law and investing in THIS country WOULD be in their self interest with citizenship as motivation.
The majority of illegal immigrants come to the US for their own economic reasons.
Are you in favor of enforcing immigration laws or open borders or catch and release or amnesty after amnesty or continuing to allow millions of illegal immigrants to remain living illegally in the US?
The Congress.
I have known quite a few H1B holders from my time in Silicone Valley. They are basically indentured servants. They are STUCK working for their 'sponsor' for all 6 years unless they can find another employer to sponsor them. It's kind of an understood thing with H1B employers that you don't 'recruit' someone else's H1B employee.
One guy I knew in Chicago was working 14-16 hour days doing data entry on salary. He had 2 kids that he never saw. He was TERRIFIED to say anything about it. I would sneak him in ice cream just to see him smile [no food in the computer room]. Supper nice guy, smart as hell, meek as hell.
Which should not be allowed to happen.
However, this is the program that "Congress" passed. I bet Congressional campaigns received large donations from their corporate sponsors who were given indentured servants to exploit.
Crossing the border is a CIVIL misdemeanor that comes with a fine of $50-250.
If it makes you feel better, give them a ticket, fine them and make them do community service.
I'm talking about the kinds of families that brought in the Dreamers. The VAST majority have been productive members of their community. Dreamers go through a vetting system that is extremely rigorous. In short, the parents aren't criminals and they brought up GOOD KIDS who aren't criminals either.
As long as employers get away with hiring illegal workers they will keep hiring them and the illegals will keep coming. That is a fact that we all accept. The GOP and their corporate funders will NEVER let legislation pass the MANDATES E-verify. NEVER. The greed is too deep.
There was just a big bust in Ohio and a Landscape/Garden Center had over 100 employees that were undocumented. There is NO WAY IN HELL that they 'had no idea' their employees were undocumented. That is the BIG lie that they ALL get away with.
I've worked in the field for over 20 years and have NEVER worked for an employer that didn't KNOWINGLY hire illegals. Invariably the illegal employees are hard working, uncomplaining, underpaid and overworked. If they get hurt, they get cut loose. All the savings goes to the owners profit margin and saves every one of us $ at the grocery store.
so open borders?
Really? THAT's what you got from my post? I guess it proves that civility is going to be hard to come by.
I don't know anyone who advocates for truly "open boarders" but it does seem that we put a whole lot of focus on the few thousand poor and disadvantaged refugees we see on our southern boarder while mostly not paying hardly any attention to the millions who just fly into the US and then overstay their visas with a little help from a lawyer and a real estate agent. You hardly hear English spoken in the ritzy neighborhoods around Central Park anymore. Mostly it is Russian or some Arabic language with a growing amount of Chinese. Millions of people come and go from the US every day but they are not poor and they did not have to walk 2,000 miles to get here. Should it be hard for Canadians to get into the US? Mexicans? Should it be harder than Russians or Chinese? The reason we are being awful to refugees from our south is because they are poor. Why shouldn't they be allowed across our boarder any more than everyone else here who flies into an airport? Could it be greed, avarice and maybe race? If so then we are not the America I grew up in and believed in. We welcomed all those fleeing tyranny in search of freedom not just those who could afford to come here loaded down with numbers on a computer screen that mean nothing...
I suggest that everyone look into how many 'refugees' have been granted entry into the US.
Chinese refugees are #1.
I don't know anyone who openly advocates for truly "open boarders" except those who are having hissy fits because we don't have truly "open boarders".
Are less than 5 percent of illegal immigrants according to Pew Research. Although the article does go into detail about difficult it is to track citizens from our border countries because DHS does not require entry visas over the land borders.
some info...
Some interesting facts about ICE arrests from 2009 thru 2017.
The criminal convictions are listed in the report.
"We" also tried to annihilate, in fact. "we" did almost annihilate the people who were living in this country before "we" arrived so we could "welcome" all those fleeing tyranny in search of freedom.
"We" are also great at overthrowing other country's leadership and installing corporate friendly puppets in the name of spreading democracy one bomb at a time.
If "we" are really concerned about helping other people then "we" should be practical and productive and do it by helping them in their own country because it is impossible to move them all to the US.
Just yesterday the GOP House voted on what they called a 'compromise' bill on immigration. The compromise was between the radical hard right and the hard right of the Republican Party. Not ONE Democrat had any input in the bill but in this day of Trump, THAT is considered a 'comprise'.
That is the compromise. Democrats have NO real political power at this time.
Welcome to trumperika !
Not the kind of compromise I'm advocating for....
Were they offered a place in the discussion? Did they come to the table? Or did they pull a Schumer and flat out refuse before seeing anythng, much like he has said he will do with ANY Supreme Court Nominee? How's that for 'compromise'?
The democrats idea of compromise is that they get everything they want in a bill and the GOP gives up everything they want in a bill .
NO.
They weren't invited. BOTH GOP bills were crafted behind closed doors. No committee hearings or reports, 0 Amendments and 1 whole hour of debate on the floor with 'House rules' waived. THAT is how the GOP runs the House.
It may behoove you to recognize that the Speaker of the House couldn't get HIS Majority caucus to pass EITHER of the bills that THEY wrote.
Blaming it on the Democrats is disingenuous at best.
The SENATE hasn't VOTED on an Immigration bill. DO try to keep up.
There is ONLY ONE bill that addresses Immigration as a whole that has filed in the Senate. It was filed by Sen. Feinstein and the Judiciary Committee hasn't held any hearings on it. Doubt that they will...
The GOP is however crafting their own Senate bill, AGAIN behind closed doors with NO Democratic input. I have NO doubt, should if ever come to fruition, McConnell will 'fill the tree' and no Amendments will be allowed. Care to bet on it?
Listened to an MPR discussion this morning... Captivating America: Civility War that reminds me much of this one. Listen if ya get a chance; enjoyable is a point where the moderator had to step in fairly hard lol...he points out---" because the discussion was supposed to be about civility."
For me it comes down to relationships. Those close associations that truly allow for agreeable disagreement are at the crux of the issue. Husbands, wives, Families, neighborhoods,,,,civilizations, are all on a 24hr. speedy cruise passing each other in the night. Making and maintaining strong relationships will promote healthy discussion, spurring successful endeavors.
Great article and thank you docphil.
:~)